Randy, if you mean how should one reply to a post on their message board (on one's own message board, or on the other person's board), I'm not sure that there's a definite answer to that..... look at my first 3 or so visitor messages; it was discussed briefly. I put up the VMB when a friend said that it wasn't fair that I didn't have one to poke me back on, since I teased him on his :). Happy posting! :D