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    Has God Ever Actively Told You to Pursue or Break Up With Someone? How Did it Go?

    i’ve only had one breakup. we were together for almost 5 years. we hit a hiccup in the relationship, and i said to the Lord, “do whatever You want to do, even if it hurts.” right then, i knew the relationship was over, but i didn’t know when it would happen. that was either a monday or tuesday...
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    Does "Pretty Privilege" Exist?

    As someone who always felt invisible to the opposite sex, I say pretty privilege exists lol. I remember when a friend and I went out to dinner, and the server looked at her most of the time when he would come to the table. He wasn’t unkind to me. Just nicer to her lol.
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    Single And In Need of Advice

    You can witness to someone without dating them.
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    Single And In Need of Advice

    OP: you may not like my advice, but here it goes. It comes down to this (in my opinion): who do I love more? The Lord or myself?
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    Looking for a Christian friendship

    Welcome to CC! My husband grew up in PA!
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    Struggling with 🌽

    I’ve heard there are programs to block sites. Also, I would recommend having an accountability partner - a person you can be honest with and can talk to when you’re struggling.
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    "This Little Piggy Has an Inbox Full of Suitors... This Little Piggy Has None."

    As for me, I wasn’t really noticed by the opposite sex. I was pursued by 2 guys. First time I was 22. Second time I was 32. I married that guy lol.
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    Help..the worship leader is crushing on me.

    “I will not and cannot be your accountability partner. I am not interested being in a relationship with you.”
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    First Date As A Christian

    When I started talking with my husband, I told myself I wasn’t going to do anything to try to impress me. He gets what he gets! lol. Fortunately he liked me enough to stick around lol.
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    Is Anyone Here the Child of Parent(s) Who Were Older (Having Children at 50 or Above)? What Do You See as the Pros and Cons?

    i’m not in my 50s, but i was 39 when our daughter was born. i am tired lol. but i often think about how things will look like for us in the future.
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    Virginia male, not sure what I am supposed to do here

    welcome to CC!
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    Christmas Traditions

    My family gets together on Christmas Eve to have dinner and watch movies. We used to wait til after midnight to open presents, but most of us can’t stay awake long enough to wait lol! So we’ll do presents in the evening. Christmas Day is a lazy day, and we would eat left overs. But things have...
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    I Wasn't Really Feeling That Old, Until... (What Makes You Feel Old?)

    I know I’m old if I go out with our toddler in the morning, and I need the rest of the day to recuperate 🫠😂
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    I Wasn't Really Feeling That Old, Until... (What Makes You Feel Old?)

    I know I’m old when I hear new music and say, “what the heck is this? It’s horrible!” 😂😂😂
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    I Wasn't Really Feeling That Old, Until... (What Makes You Feel Old?)

    I feel old when I have to get up from the floor after playing with our toddler. I felt mega old when I went to a moms group, and most ladies said they were the first in their friend group to have a child. Meanwhile… most people my age have teens. Some are even grandparents. 🫠
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