Recent content by NestForASparrow

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    Random game.

    Inchon
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    Not Respecting Your Nonnegotiables in Dating

    So I am part of Facebook Christian single pages and every time I bring up the fact I won't date a woman who is divorced, I get attacked by divorced women who say I am either not reading the Bible correctly or they give me some different interpretation of the Word. This is either in direct...
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    Is This a Red Flag??

    Yellow to red flag. Not red flag that he is a bad person, but that he is not ready to move on. So you should move on from him.
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    What are your relationship dealbreakers?

    I won't date divorced women (I don't care if they are "Biblically divorced" or not as I have seen too many stretch that concept) and don't want to date a moman who has children already.
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    I gave up on finding a mate.

    I feel old remembering the chat and this wasn't even the first Christian chat I used as there was a website called ChurchUSA I used before this that had a chat feature.....didn't like they had a nonChristian as one of their mods though,
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    Why seek a relationship?

    Without all the times we have messed up and found ourselves not deserving of the love of God, it has made us who we are as Christians. My mess ups have made me who I am as a Christian and I don't think I would want to give up my mess ups. I like the concept of Calvinism, no matter what actions...
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    A Hairy Situation -- Gentlemen, Are You Ever Concerned About Balding? What Do You Do to Prevent or Reverse It, If Anything?

    I believe I will start balding a little (emphasis on little) when I am in my late 70s. I might lose a quarter of an inch of my hairline at that time.
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    How Many of Our Own Demons Need to be Chained Before We Can Start Dating?

    When I was interested in dating out of college age, I had all these rules of needing an apartment (this was important as it allowed me to live in the area where I graduated though), needing a job, and needing a personal car. As a younger adult I viewed these all as necessities, but as a somewhat...
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    Has the single forum died down?

    They're both private, which is nice. Public Facebook is just not that great. These single Christian pages are better than many of the others because they go beyond just looking for a date posting encouragements and asking for help/prayers through their struggles.....many of the others are just...
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    How "Financially Set" Does One Need to Be in Order to "Qualify" for Looking for a Spouse?

    All those are excuses. As someone who has hidden by those excuses all his adult life, they are just excuses. I have come up with a myriad of excuses of why I "should not" read as: do not want to date.
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    I wish......

    I wish everyone came to know the love of God either in life or death and Hell only had Satan, even the other fallen angels embracing God's love....even scratch that, I want Satan to be redeemed as well as I want no evil to exist in the realm of creation.
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    Another fun topic: Marvel or DC whos your favorites

    Marvel because they had better movies when I last watched them in 2018 (not sure when Ms Marvel released but I saw that out of order..still need to see Ragnarok and the end of the Infinity War saga).
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    Has the single forum died down?

    We spend our time on the single Facebook groups like 8:24 and the Grownups Table.
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    Fun topics: whats your favorite game board, card, or videogame

    Favorite board game is Risk, favorite card game is Magic The Gathering, and favorite video game is Star War: Knights of the Old Republic.
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    Random game.

    Starkiller