Recent content by Nufan

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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Looks like somthing serious is developing. I spent that whole night with her and the next day as well. She wants something serious but needs to go slow.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    She called me and set up a date to hang out. Wish me luck.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Im going to just be friends with her. She's too hurt right now and not ready for a relationship. It just sucks that so many women are like this.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Don't over think it. Dont over think it. Just play like you use to during 3rd grade recess and you'll win over 90% of the women out there.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Well, she did finally get ahold of me, so it does look like she is pursuing something with me.So I guess we'll see what happens.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Thanks for the well-thought-out answer. What's protecting me is just being up front about what I want, making it clear that I'm not wanting sex or intimacy starting out. I want to see that there's substance and that there's something that can sustain the relationship without having to rely on...
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    Loss of salvation???

    We always have a choice. I believe you can cross a line where there's no coming back from, but I also believe god can do the impossible.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Thank you linx. God is keeping me safe and sharing his heart. God is good.
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    What Does It REALLY Mean to "Get Closer to God"? And How Can You Tell That You Really Are "Closer to Him"?

    For me it was encountering god's love and having a desire to share with others.
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    Can you find substance in today's smash and pass culture?

    Something that I have learned over the years is you can't expect a long healthy relationship to be established by starting with intimacy and sex. I have learned that intimacy is a passion and it can quickly die. If you don't take the time to first develop a connection and bond with one another...
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    What are you mad at God over

    I believe that everything you're saying is true.But also know that god is not ignorant of darkness and he understands our struggle. But even more importantly, you also are not ignorant of darkness, and therefore you should also understand that struggle. We are all called to share the love of god...
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    What are your relationship dealbreakers?

    If any of her likes consist of snapchat, tiktok trends, gift cards, or Carry Underwood. Then it's a hard pass for me.
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    What are you mad at God over

    From what I've gathered recently. It would seem that he wants what's best for his daughter. Possibly she's not doing well and God hasn't yet answered his prayer. I think it's understandable for him to be angry and upset and the question God over something like that. Please take that into...
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    What are you mad at God over

    Then please forgive me. I would kindly ask you not be offensive.