Recent content by PeterJames

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    How best can one ward off sexual advacement from colleagues at work place?

    I am lucky at work at a Christian organization where everyone is very friendly and these kinds of advances are unheard of. But I will not lie; because I feel there is a sibling relationship missing in my life since I was very young, when some coworkers come up to me - I sometimes wish we were...
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    The Best Marriage Advice in the World

    It's good that people are discussing this post and thinking through the subject even if ultimately I am proven wrong; I would just add that something else to notice in Ephesians 5 is Paul's insistence, that the woman submit to her "own" husband as apparently a problem in the Ephesian church was...
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    The Best Marriage Advice in the World

    I get this by a clear reading of the text: 22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the...
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    The Best Marriage Advice in the World

    With all love and respect, I disagree with the conclusions made in this original post. The original post does have it right on that men and women are very different persons in terms of their emotional characteristics, but that does not automatically equate to mean that a woman should submit...
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    I dont want to be impolite...

    In that case, there's something else bothering you when it comes to helping people it seems. Have you ever considered taking Neil Anderson's Steps to Freedom in Christ course? Any of his books are great, Victory over the Darkness, Bondage Breakers, The Steps to Freedom in Christ. Or even a new...
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    Request for friends

    We may not be able to properly develop friendships in this life and sometimes the devil picks at our perceived 'loneliness' as a way to bring error to us. It is hard and difficult to accept when you are in the middle of an addiction, but a friend can be a friend if you only talk to them once in...
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    What do I do???!!!

    I do agree that we open doors in our lives to demonic influence either through porn use or doing anything New Age or the Occult. We should refuse to believe the lies of the enemy, and believe the truth of Christ, turn away from our sins, and close the doors once and for all that we may have...
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    Request for friends

    UPDATE: I wanted to update people on this. I confessed the entirety of my struggles to my wife, difficult as it was. I totally and completely agree that she is my best friend, now my accountability partner and confidant. I am going through the Steps to Freedom in Christ with Neil...
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    I dont want to be impolite...

    OneFaith - I think you are an extremely godly person wanting to serve others. I understand some will question your motives, your techniques, your desires. But if it is something you enjoy doing, I would only say to temper your ministry somewhat so you don't get burnout or feel resentful later...
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    Hello My Name Is ...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuJWQzjfU3o&ab_channel=MatthewWestVEVO
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    Request for friends

    Hello, this might be a slightly odd request for friends. Please allow me to explain. About all last week, the left side of my mouth was *killing* me, a throbbing pain which I've never really experienced before. My guess was sinus allergies, it just wouldn't stop and sometimes massages and...
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    10,000 Reasons: It's a New Day Dawning!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=co47MhuIRaU&index=17&list=PLOpV149mUpV9z5x qVzQL9pMg9Z1WDkV6K
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    Who Will Ascend to the Hill of the Lord!

    Those who do not lift their soul unto idols! From Psalms 24:3-6 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibVW3QeL4I8
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    I Love You Lord!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c3xXkBVuQWU
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    email pen pals

    If anyone likes having email pen pals, please feel free to PM me. I would like to have more Christian friends. God Bless you in everything you do. Peter James