Recent content by spunkycat08

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    What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

    Here is the definition of a social justice warrior... In the broadest sense, a social justice warrior is a person that uses complex serious social, economic and political issues as a way to further their own agenda by claiming they are fighting to "correct a wrong" Specifically, it is used to...
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    What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

    So, is a "Karen" considered a social justice warrior since she speaks up for what is right?
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    Was I “playing games?” If so, how do I not?

    Would you want to be the consolation prize? This is how it feels when you are turned down for a date, but the the person who turned you down offers friendship instead.
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    Orbiters

    This is the definition of an orbiter. An opposite sex friend who secretly loves their 'friend', and may go out of their way to accommodate their friend. Either the opposite sex friend was rejected early on and was placed in the friend-zone, or he/she never had the courage to ask their...
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    Helping someone who has abandonment issues

    The reason why I am posting this is because of an incident that happened in 2012 when my husband and I were a couple. A female friend of his, who was in her forties a that time and has abandonment issues stemming from her childhood, wanted him to come over to her place on a Friday night to 1)...
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    Why would a male or female want this type of relationship?

    Why would a male or female want this type of relationship Fabulous Females: The Pseudo-Boyfriend and Just Making Space: Surrogate Girlfriend, Do You Have One? Why would a male or female not want what God wants for them relationship wise? Why would a male or female be willing to put up with...
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    Christmas Day

    My husband and I celebrated Christmas with a couple of friends along with a former boss and his live-in significant other. He is living at her place. The situation he is in is a mess that I would not want to be in. I was told by my husband that his 26 year marriage is ending because his wife...
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    Husband's former female friend chose to move on

    Recently my husband received a Facebook "call" from a former female friend he met in 2011 while the 2 of us were getting to know each-other letting him know that 1) she is moving on with her life, 2) she is moving out of the city where both of us live to go to school, and 3) she had wanted to...
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    Check out the youtube video below

    Check out the youtube video below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JonnxNrDORM
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    I need help

    I have an idea as to why behavior was not the best on this website. I have become involved in a co-dependent relationship with a couple, who are now friends, my husband has known since the 1990's. I have posted about them on this site. I realized this due to their behavior. The most recent...
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    Are the 2 of them friends or more than friends?

    If you are friends with someone of the opposite sex, but you secretly want to date that person, exactly what are the 2 of you considered to be?
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    Female half of a couple seeking advice

    My husband and I have been spending time with a couple he has known since the 1990's when the 3 of them worked at the same place. This couple has dated off and on since the 1990's. Both of them are on disability. Both of them can only work a maximum of 20 hours a week when they are employed. But...
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    Why does this happen?

    This thread is in response to the thread started by lilli. Why do deacons act like this? Why does this happen in the church?
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    Dating versus "hanging out"

    I found this article regarding dating versus "hanging out" on the internet. Dating vs. Hanging Out
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    Where is that line between being patient and can't move on?

    This photo is appropriate for this thread regarding relationships.