I hate it when someone asks you to do something before you have a chance to offer to do it yourself (because, while I was wanting to offer and help on my own, I was still trying to wake up or deal with something that was my own unseen reality that nobody knew about, and frankly, that nobody NEEDED to know about) and then complains that you are not motivated and that they had to ask you and meanwhile they already shot you down before you get to even say anything - like, it all happens in a split second and you feel like you don't have a voice and feel like its pointless to say anything because its so strong in their mind and wouldn't listen to you anyways! Those people were known to be toxic and it hasn't happened since I dropped them LONG ago, but it still sticks out in my mind LOL