Siberian_Katru....so far, your advice seems to miss the mark...the center of this entire forum...CHRIST..yes..CHRIST..the ONE on whom the word CHRISTIANTY is supposed to be centered around. You have danced all around Him, yet never mentioned His name. Anyone who is truely seeking CHRIST should look to CHRIST.....Himself..experience what HE has, what HE offers...what HE is all about....CHRIST is not a 'religion"..CHRIST is a real entity....has a plan for every individual....to not advise anyone that they need to find a CHRIST centered congregation that allows the Holy Spirit to be part of the worship service is the biggest travesty, esp. chrism124 who seems to really be seeking for HIM. Isn't there a favorite appropriate BIBLE verse you can use, or a personal uplifting testimony that you can share, instead of drawing out all the negative material you have dished in here? There is no way that anyone, after reading your advice column, would even want to continue to seek JESUS CHRIST...you have not offered any hope, no encouragement, no real reason that they should continue. If that is your best reflection of JESUS in your life.....who needs it?