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Ugly

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#41
Aikido sounds pretty cool… but I think Imma start lookin for an Israeli martial arts trainer now :cool:
Yeah, they're both awesome. I'd be happy to learn either. But the Aikido looks so effortless. Hurt someone using their own momentum. You just go with it. And against groups too. Just looks awesome. But yeah, can't go wrong with either one for sure.
 
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sooooo freaked out!!!!! he pulled up as i was walking home A DIFFERENT ROUTE!!! didnt say a word!!!! just drove slowly next to me staring at me i tried to just pay attention to my phone (I was texting my police friend at the time) but he just kept staring at me then all of a sudden sped off in a mad screeching sound. I told my friend and he said he would take care of it personally. super creeped out tho. prayers please...thank you

P.S please pray for my police friend. His name is Adam and he has been my biggest encourager, advisor and trainer (he is currently helping me learn how to fight and lose weight) :) but he needs prayer as he struggles with PTSD and depression. thank you
Glad to hear from you again. Even though its not good news. Good to hear your friend is helping you. Hopefully he can overcome his issues as well.
 
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AprilAngel

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#43
Yes he is in custody now that's all I know but so thankful for my friends here and my friend Adam. You all have been in my prayers. Thank you more Mr.Ugly :)
 
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AprilAngel

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Thank you guys, I thought I had posted again...I had meant to tell everyone who has been praying for me and helping me through this.

Update: He is in jail, not only for violating the order but for PHYSICALLY harming another lady on the same night! Thankfully my friend Adam helped me tell the police and they caught him at his residence with a lady. I'm just so thankful for everyone keeping me safe.
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Mr.Ugly
Mr.danschance
Ms. Pickles
everyone else. You guys are the best. <3 Sorry I haven't been on in a while, busy busy! Got a job (possibly 2) to be able to move away from my family, gonna start looking into college, I want to be an RN. I wanted to be a cop but I guess half blind people can't be cops LOL. My friend Adam is doing ok too learning to trust God again, he said my faith is helping him regain his :) cool!
God is amazing!!! love ya guys <3 :p oooo
 
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reject-tech

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<< last moment edit, sorry, I didn't see that there had been results posted. looks like the messenger was already ahead of you and maybe he got it lol >>

OP,
The text messages and especially any internet connection should be enough to produce some result from the police. You don't need voice recording, and it sometimes even isn't admissible.

As far as the martial arts option goes, it will do you no good unless you are mentally prepared to absolutely devour your attacker, rather than play the "if they swing this way, I do this" game. Be prepared to gouge out eyes, crush windpipes, and bite faces, break lamps over heads and so on if you are defending yourself.

Foremost, pray that God will send His messenger before you, as I just did for you, to somehow bring it to this guy's mind that he'd best leave you alone.
 
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Thank you guys, I thought I had posted again...I had meant to tell everyone who has been praying for me and helping me through this.

Update: He is in jail, not only for violating the order but for PHYSICALLY harming another lady on the same night! Thankfully my friend Adam helped me tell the police and they caught him at his residence with a lady. I'm just so thankful for everyone keeping me safe.
God
Mr.Ugly
Mr.danschance
Ms. Pickles
everyone else. You guys are the best. <3 Sorry I haven't been on in a while, busy busy! Got a job (possibly 2) to be able to move away from my family, gonna start looking into college, I want to be an RN. I wanted to be a cop but I guess half blind people can't be cops LOL. My friend Adam is doing ok too learning to trust God again, he said my faith is helping him regain his :) cool!
God is amazing!!! love ya guys <3 :p oooo
This is great to hear. And it's awesome you're moving on with your life and not letting this situation hold you back from getting out there and doing what you want.
 
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AprilAngel

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#47
This is great to hear. And it's awesome you're moving on with your life and not letting this situation hold you back from getting out there and doing what you want.
Yes, I'm not letting this stop me. If anything this has made me stronger, more aware of my surroundings, though they have never been ideal I guess I always thought only my family was crummy. Not others. I always try to see the light in everyone...but now I realize...not everyone has Gods light in them, unfortunately. I am living with my grandma now and she is much...healthier for me than my parents. I'm also doing classes every wednesday with my friend and some people from the local PD, to train my body and mind to be able to handle things if something like this ever happens again. Think I will start another post about those classes and what I've learned, etc.

<3
 
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Yes, I'm not letting this stop me. If anything this has made me stronger, more aware of my surroundings, though they have never been ideal I guess I always thought only my family was crummy. Not others. I always try to see the light in everyone...but now I realize...not everyone has Gods light in them, unfortunately. I am living with my grandma now and she is much...healthier for me than my parents. I'm also doing classes every wednesday with my friend and some people from the local PD, to train my body and mind to be able to handle things if something like this ever happens again. Think I will start another post about those classes and what I've learned, etc.

<3
Put a link in here... or i may miss it haha
 

Chainhand

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Wow... just saw this thread.

I just prayed that this loon will forget about April while he's in jail. :)


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Anna20fAustralia

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#51
Yep. just ring the cops.
 
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AprilAngel

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#52
I'm so sorry that you are going through this trial. Not that I was of any help before, but I will lift you up in prayer, as well as your friend. I can only imagine the anxiety this is putting you through. I hope you find peace soon. God Bless
Thank you, said stalker is now in jail and I am moving on in my life :) thank you for the prayers.
 
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AprilAngel

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trying to anyway, got word tonight that he bailed out. like what the!!! so now i get to go gun shopping!! oh joy! I'm only trusting myself at this point, no location updates and pls noone share anything with anybody who knows my location, ty!! prayers for safety as that restraining order is just paper!!!!
Lord pls send your angels and turn this mans heart away from me as I've done and will continue to do soul tie prayers to break his mental infatuation with me!
I am not scared, I will not run or back down. I will protect myself at all costs. I will need to get used to the idea of a lethal weapon...he could have one too and I need to be prepared if anything happens.
 

pickles

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Hugs April, what alfull news.
Tazors are very effective as well, and effective when there is close contact.
We never know if we might hesitate to take a life, but zapping the daylights out of an attacker comes easyer. :)
Ill keep you in my prayers in Jesus's name, for God's protection is perfect.

God bless
pickles
 
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AprilAngel

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good point Pickles, ty I will without a doubt look into those first, as I KNOW I would have no problem watching him squirm like a little worm...for 5 seconds then kicking the daylights out of his man parts and running like heck!! all joking aside i will HUURTT him!
 

pickles

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I do understand, He chose to put you in this positon of defence.
You did not choose to be there.

Be careful and safe. :)

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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CodyJ

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Things will be ok sis, keep your head up. Remember this freak comes i got a metal bat that would look good with some dents in it. ya know *tink, bap, tink* heh -.- let us put on the Armor of Christ and we will be just fine, plus you kick butt you woop mine when im being dumb so ya know *pinches* DUCKS OUT QUICK
 
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Ugly

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Tazers are fine, if they work. But there are some people who are not affected or only minimally. Not enough to deter them or stop them. I have seen people tazed by the police and not even slow down.
 
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AprilAngel

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Tazers are fine, if they work. But there are some people who are not affected or only minimally. Not enough to deter them or stop them. I have seen people tazed by the police and not even slow down.
Wow...i kinda thought tazers worked on everybody...hmmm...definitely changing my view now, either way I'm still going to look into a gun, just for safety. I hate feeling like I need it but I know I do, everything in me says prepare for it...which isn't good, but rather safe than sorry..i have changed my schedule from how it used to be too so no more "predictability" or "complacency"...
 
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Yeah, also, tazers are also only used to temporarily incapacitate them. The recovery time is rather quick for many people. So you have to be able to subdue that person still, or run. Personally, if i'm going to incapacitate a person, i'd rather do it in such a manner that it will take longer than a few seconds for them to recover. And be more angry haha. A bullet anywhere between the feet and the waist will do a fine job of that.