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She is SLEEPING with 4 of them! She is very gullible and I do pray and help her through it daily.
I do not at all condone the fornicating, but at the same time, I can tell you that I understand this woman's promiscuity.
After I lost Dolly, my skin lit up. It was on fire. My libido heightened, I would estimate, about 40%. Not at all what I needed at that time of my life, almost adding insult to injury. This is a big question I still have for God. But, I digress...
I looked it up, and found that it is not uncommon for this to happen. Sometimes one's sex drive dies, sometimes it lights up. But, there is a change, one way or the other, at least for a time after the death.
This happens, apparently, as some sort of screwed-up comfort mechanism after a painful experience. But, it is most inconvenient after your legitimate sexual partner is the one you lose.
On a side note, I told God that I was going to pursue sexual partners, or at least one steady FWB situation. I hoped He would not whack me, but I felt a high need for it. I got nowhere. Seems whenever I got even somewhat close, serious conviction set in and I couldn't pursue further. But, I did sin online tremendously. God took that way, too, a few years later. But, I understand this woman's plight (though I have to assume and hope that after these past 7 years, she's settled down and is living better).