Depressed, lonely, and dead inside

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Where am i going? Ummm... My life has reallt just sucked these past few weeks. I've been really depressed, and sad and just feel like no one will ever see me as a human being again. I've been really suicidal and lonely. How do you cope with the pain?
 
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First if you are suicidal tell your parents please!

Beyond that pray and talk to God. When we feel really low He is there. Lean on God and ask Him to heal you.
I think reading in Psalms helps.

Stay strong love you,
lexi
 
Dec 9, 2013
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Hey sorry life sucks for you right now, everyone has sucky moments but they pass. Life will get better.
For coping with the pain, take your mind off of it. Since you are a christian, pray it will make you feel better.
Do something you enjoy doing. Try not to be around people who bring you down and try not to think about them even though that can be hard.

Wish you well
 
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Crazylove

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God delivered me from this and I would b more than happy to pray u through this b4 its too late! Remebr that God loves u, accepts you, and sent His special son Jesus to die for u. Don't let th devil lie 2 u and tak ur soul! u r made in th likness and image of God, do u hear me, GOD. the maker of th stars, moon, sun, th mountains, and most importantly u, u r fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Let Him help u, let me pray with u. Sin bonds u and brings pain, but Jesus came to this earth to set us free! and bring us love and joy! Satan is a liar! A selfish, liar who wants u 4 no other reason but to make u miserable, lonely, and in pain for an eternity w/ him!
 
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Try find things look 4ward to.
Little things even like "a cupa tea with toast" or a bubble bath or a cuddle...
if you have noone cuddle you imagine a future (close/near future) where you shall be embraced and loved and feel joy and good.


Feel yourself.

Have you had trauma?
Post trauma stress you difficulty deal with?

Do not jump to medications but if you decide upon it be very gentle and careful of what you put inside.
Read side effects and maybe tiny doses or use natural herbs, vitamin , exercise etc


When depressed and maybe drained exercise difficult to perform but you could try seek support and pepp talk and small steps such as "a little walk each day".
and build from there.


Seek help.
Try to find some one you can trust and hope they dont betray you, drug you, rape you , solicite you while you drugged , tie you up and steal etc


You may be in a whole community of people who bring you down.
Maybe they have a lot to gain from it.
Some people make lot money of people misery and by downing them in various ways.

If so would it help you move ?

Or pray for a new people enter your life , a better people who you can "connect" with communicate with have understanding with.
A people understand you or at least some of them may and might even care for you. lol
(stranger things have happened and beleive miracles)


Save up for massage but be careful who you see so dont do damage instead of good.


Comfort your self.
Drink hot chocolate or tea and wrap blanket around and pray someone to come to you and comfort you.

Talk to your self.

It does help. (remember trauma i had and every second was aaaaaaagony I kept talking to self take it minute by minute hour by hour day by day..)


Suicide not good you can avoid and you can heal trauma.


It can take years but imagine wonderful things you can experience b4 you die.
You might meet new people and have new experiences and move home and find peace and healing.


I know a woman who was in cage and restraint for yrs like jail and raped and she was trauma they drugged her also and said she whore and she was not.
Men raped in anus and also tortured people but they survived and also brainwashed people but they could heal brain or live happy with out brain.... lol



Take care of yourself.


Keep the faith .


seek professional.


Seek people who care, understand, encourage, support, dont judge and down you or "get over it"...


If you do not find people like this.
Then do not give up.
They are a minority theremany pretend be this but are not so keep faith and hold on.


Song that goes "hold on help is on the way"

Hold on.


Better days can come and better nights aswell.


Please do not give up that you can feel better soon, heal and not kill yourself.

Although one may kill self "oh noooooo i doooont want be bron again in thaaaaat family..... " lol
theeey were horrid absolutelyyyyyyy.......
I want a better family not rape and steal so i had a accident and born again to be self where noone steal and rape etc
or organise it without such drama. :)
 
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thedoctorwho

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Thank you for posting on my issue. If you are feeling this bad please reach out to someone!!! God loves you. We love you!!
 
May 9, 2012
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I've been on that road these past few days. Although I think the reasons may be different, that doesn't change we serve a mighty God capable of healing the most wounded souls.
 
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isaria

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One woman told a psychiatrist she was molested in cott and then penetrated as toddler and then abused and used and suffered much trauma.
After seeing her 2 or 3 times he said she was schizo.
Previously he had met with a man she knew who referred her to this "dr" saying "we best buddies".
He sat groaning on seat and clearly a sadist sicker than patient ever will be.
Most psychiatrists are sadists and sick.


Or another dr "cate.b" and company whom performed surgery on someone awake and no pain killers and whom said "want watch you suffer" and another lay next to her having surgery look same while man masturbated.....etc
Golly.


Or one given enough medication to drug a horse and then used and disabled.


Better you use natural methods and try find good social inclusion and support and people who may understand you and care and encourage you togood and better healing.


You be suprised how many sadist stories involve doctors specially psychiatrists but patients are to damaged to be able advokate or communicate what happened to them.
Even those educated as they have hells fire sadist club group of educated people that do these things often stealing money also.
Often looooaaads money involved also.
Stealing and disabling and respectable educated professionals can even have it happen to them specially so many in on it...



A woman was straight and so another woman had surgery look like to steal her cat en dominate and got drunk and lied and it was disgusting .
Then a man wanted two wifes and woman said NO.
So they had surgery of a another woman steal the name and time.
Then "directors cut" and woman look just like her and fele like made look a certain way and lied.


Anyway, be careful who you seek help from.

But do seek help.
Maybe you need more vitamins , sleep, care....
Can be a simple solution sometimes.


Best wishes to you.
 
May 3, 2013
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Where am i going? Ummm... My life has reallt just sucked these past few weeks. I've been really depressed, and sad and just feel like no one will ever see me as a human being again. I've been really suicidal and lonely. How do you cope with the pain?
Hi!
I´m not about to re-write here many things I have left in my post (here and somewhere else) but I tell yu what I´m learning this days: I got leishmaniasis. I don´t know the English for that,but I know those pains you mentioned and these new ones I´m facing. Here, and now, I learned sores needs cleansing and this is done with some pain.

This new pain I know is new, bwcause I have to face it to he healed, so here healing needs some pains, and cleaning, as well.

Another thing I learned: Sores or sorrows are not to be hidden. They need to be exposed, even to the light of the sun.
I don´t know what you´ve believed, but I´m convinved of this, and it is ore effective than crying and feeling selfpity.

I don´t know how you exactly feel, but depression is a proces of healing. Being sucidal is not the best way (I have thought in that before and, the last time I thought about it, I pulled 3 times a trigger and, the very idea you´ve mentioned , those tears, stopped me from blowing my head, when I thought about my son Joshua: "What would he think about me? What he would think later on, about me?"

I just leave this thoughts on you, because I cared what my son thinks...