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VioletReigns

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I am concerned and negative about you and this situation. Don't smile or notice him, don't give him any cause or hope.
This may discourage someone who is not a real threat. But appearing unaware around a true predator makes you more accessible in his eyes. Predators are looking for prey. The less you look like prey, the better off you are.

I honestly would look him straight in the eye with a look of severe disapproval and ask what his problem was. If he's innocent, he'll just drive off disappointed. If he's a predator, hopefully he'll be discouraged and drive off. Listen: If the guy has half a brain he should know that a stranger stopping his car in the street to chat it up with a lady he doesn't know is going to cause concern to you. If wisdom escapes him on that point alone, he's a knucklehead.

We don't want to live in fear of people, but we also don't want to be a victim. There is a lot of information online on avoiding predators and safety tips. I hope you check it out, dear.
 
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VioletReigns

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How do you spell "fear?" Why is this everyone's automatic reaction?
It's my automatic reaction because I have been attacked and have counseled others who have been attacked as well. I don't call protecting myself "fear", I call it "prevention." :)
 
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It's my automatic reaction because I have been attacked and have counseled others who have been attacked as well.
I can understand awareness and heightened observation, but not fear. I have been attacked probably more than fifty times, and I never experienced fear in any of it. In fact, I have only experienced such a feeling twice in my life, and both times it was Spiritually connected.
 
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VioletReigns

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It also helps to have friends like this. :rolleyes:

[video=youtube;E7Qpv5I5YCM]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7Qpv5I5YCM[/video]
 
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I saw no fear in that video.
 
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skylove7

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Honestly butterfly....if he just said "hi"...likely he meant no harm. If he started following you...yea I would call the Po Po on him! But in all honesty? In my forty two years of life...single mom since age 21...um...a guy saying a polite 'hi'...is a walk in the park...to what I have seen and heard creeps wanna do to me in public. Be very careful...definetly. Do u have a friend to walk with? The buddy system is awesome!
 
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Be smart. Try to be prepared. But for Pete's sake resist letting yourself be fearful
 
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VioletReigns

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As I was going for my walk on Wedesday,there was this guy that was driving a black jeep,that I had never seen before in my neighborhood,he saw me walking around the block,stopped and said hi to me,I didn't know what to do,so I just waved to him.Does this sound distrubing to you?
I guess with all the information we solicited to you, you're the best judge of what is the right thing to do. I thought perhaps the reason you posted it in the first place was that something deeply concerned you about the situation. Nonetheless, I hope it was just some harmless incident. :D
 
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Miri

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I get this all the time after all I'm 6 ft blond, model like proportions - I wish lol.:cool:

No honestly I do get this all the time, I spent around 10 years playing the saxophone in the worship team in a church
with a congregation of around 1000.

I often get strangers coming up to say hello and i haven't a clue who they are, it turns out they have seen me
playing on the stage at church. oh the price of fame ;)
 

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I have been attacked probably more than fifty times, and I never experienced fear in any of it.
Sorry to hear that.
.......but maybe the reason was because you had a mustache?
The power of the stache, ya know?

They can be intimidating, and deadly if grown out right.