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ok so here's the dilemma my 20 yr hs reunion is coming up i really want to go. my husband doesn't. he says i can either go and take my daughter or go alone. i asked why he didn't want to go he said he would feel uncomfortable because he would be the oldest in the room (he's 20 yrs older than me) my husbands' never been shy and i never thought the age difference bothered him until now. i go to his class reunion, gathering with his friends and spouses, and i don't feel uncomfortable. i can relate to all sorts of people of all sorts of ages. i'm not sure how i'm suppose to feel about this. i do not want to be upset or argue but i gotta be honest i am a little hurt. we've been married going on 3 yrs and he's never done anything with me and my friends although always invited. i always go to his friends and famlies gatherings. i just don't get it he doesn't know a stranger and will talk to anyone will give anyone the shirt off his back but he dosen't want to be with my friends leaving me either cancelling plans or going alone and feeling like a 5th wheel. he even has been avoiding my family get together s lately and when we first got together he was all about my family. so i asked him if someone offended him or hurt his feelings to where he didn't want to be with them. he claims no one has. i'm just not sure of the changes and i don't want things to change in our marriage i need lots of prayer and any advice u can offer. thanks and God Bless