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Bitter much? This is one of the most rude, insensitive (ironically) and offensive statements i've seen on this site. Could you be any more judgmental? This is a Christian attitude? Ignore User, here i come.

bitter? for a while maybe. I said MOST NOT ALL. obviously Ive been treated so bad and last night another one came. How did it became a monster?
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Encyclopedia of Myths › Mi-Ni
Aug 31, 2012 – Types and Characteristics of Monsters. Monsters are by definition unnatural, something that should not exist.
I was referring to the unfair treatment that man should not do. The INSENSITIVITY..Something should not exist. Nothing more...
You ignored me because Ive been treated badly and I micro blog this.
Christian attitude. I'm not perfect and I do not claim to be.
You think by ignoring me and questioning what my christian attitude is...
gives u a good christian attitude?
Not here to make enemy's. Sorry if I have offended u in anyway. I don't mean to argue. Im just saying.


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New International Version (©2011)
How can you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.


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thats long.

zaoman last night was over. but I do know that there are still insensitive monsters out there. well not only man. Im sorry and I said MOST not everyone. Please check out my definition of monsters in my reply above.

I'm sorry I dont remember calling you a monster. I said MOST NOT ALL!
Encyclopedia of Myths › Mi-Ni
Aug 31, 2012 – Types and Characteristics of Monsters. Monsters are by definition unnatural, something that should not exist.
The monster attitude should not exist. Only that. :hugs: to a brother who thought he was a monster.

thanks! ur right maybe. we all have different minds and interpretation. I said MOST not ALL. I also refer to MONSTER as the attitude that should not exist and goes for all gender and we are all guilty of this one time or another. Cruel depends on how we take it.

brother we still dont know what is the true meaning of mosters. maybe mosters is not really monster it could also refer to a loving and caring husband.
I said MOST NOT ALL! I REFER TO MONSTER AS AN ATTITUDE THAT SHOULD NOT EXIST. I should have put most people...

Rule one: all generalizations are wrong.
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...wait, isn't that a generalization?

AND I WAS DELETED BECAUSE OF THIS....

all i got to say is Pancake bunny!

Thank you for listening! My lips are sealed and my keyboard is locked.

she sent me a copy/paste of this conversation in my mail box............ what do i do with it?

uhhhhhh stuff?

I have personally witnessed that when I make a generalized statement like this, it is I doing what I am claiming others are. It is a rather humbling experience and very fitting with the scripture that says,

Matthew 7
Judge not, that ye be not judged. [SUP]2 [/SUP]For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

The scriptures that follow talks about removing the offense first from yourself so that you can see clearly enough to help others remove the same offense.

There is great wisdom in this. One thing that I have noticed is that when we make false accusations, we are the one committing what we are accusing. So look at verse 2 again in the light of that.

[SUP]2 [/SUP]For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

With that being said, you can now see the irony in that the statement originally made was a rather "insensitive" one having not considered the feelings of others in making it.

Now, in the order of things, so that I would not be insensitive as well I must also say that I am compassionate to whatever hurt it is that you have undergone. Many of us here at CC have been hurt as well by someone that we loved or trusted. Many of us question whether we ever want to trust again and expose ourselves to being vulnerable to someone else.

Others cannot make us bitter or unforgiving. We choose if we become that. It is my hope that we can all learn to forgive, because only by that are we able to be restored.

Seek His righteousness. Let God give wisdom and understanding so that we may receive correction and instruction according to His ways; that we would not continue to suffer in our own ways.

Remember that there is no man to condemn you; neither does God condemn you. As Jesus said, "Now go and sin no more."

No.

If you are going to share, I would recommend going into greater detail of what has happened so that others may understand fully.

At the same time, I don't know that it is wise to share certain things of very sensitive and personal nature on a thread. I think I may have some idea of what has happened to you. Do you have a pastor or someone of faith that you can trust to talk to?

Do not close your eyes to it and do not harden your heart neither. Your statement could be seen as just someone who is bitter over relationship failures. I think there is much more to it than that. But because you haven't clarified what has happened, much is left open to interpretation.

You can go into detail without revealing too much. Use discretion but be sure that you are being clear in what you have suffered.

You are right in that you cannot change what is done. None of us can. You can change what happens now and from now on.

you made a rude general comment that most men are some sort of monster, and you get upset at the replies? how would you feel if someone had come on and made some generalized statement about women? if you had givem some sort of explnation of what is going on, the responses would have probably have been better

I'm not upset about the responses. I was trying to explain myself. But nobody would listen. If somebody made a generalized statement about woman. I would do my best to explain the possibility of how woman have reacted the way that we do. we all have been experiencing different troubles and trials. Different treatments etc. Will give that person a chance to think it over and maybe advice him/her what he/she could do. Correct him/her in private.
my explanation is not needed since they have deleted me already. whatever I say will just lead to another provocation. Calling me names etc. Id rather just keep quiet regarding this issue.




I would have try to understand where that person is coming from and what can I do to explain

Same, I'm a bit confused.

I tried to read what ever she sent me to figure out what she wanted but I got lost.

maybe it was trigger finger?

I got an email in my inbox & just deleted it...didn't bother to read. Sometimes the red warning flags are so obvious.lol