Sore heart

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Mimi84

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So I have broken up with my fiancé.. Hurting badly.. But I know he's not right for me. I got saved in 2009 then back slid.. Met him in 2012.. We used to party etc.. I gave my life back to God in Jan this year then things went downhill.. We lived different lives, he's not saved.. I was so eager for him for him to get saved but it wasn't his time, had a breakup for 4 weeks recently and I was like an angry bear then got back and seen the real reasons we shouldn't be together.. I'm so sad now.. 4 years just gone.. I know the Lord has a better plan for me., but we finally broke up because he was texting/snap chatting another girl.. So deeply hurt tho.. I know I'm not meant to be single cause I have that urge to be as one.. I thought he was the one.. Can someone please enlighten me
 
breno785au

breno785au

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You've made a choice, a man or God and you certainly made the right one. Personally I stopped myself accepting the Truth for the sake of a woman -I chose God in the end and God has certainly honoured that and He will certainly honour you too.
 
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Mimi84

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It's so painful.. I thought that was the man for me but from I came back to God it's went very wrong.. Even me being nasty to him etc which I never was.. I'm really confused.. Is it the enemy made me be mean to him and drive him to cheat?
 
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Mimi84 said:
It's so painful.. I thought that was the man for me but from I came back to God it's went very wrong.. Even me being nasty to him etc which I never was.. I'm really confused.. Is it the enemy made me be mean to him and drive him to cheat?
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He cheated because he wanted to, it wasn't you., Or the enemy. If he was that upset about how you treated him he could have broken up with you. But instead he did a cowardly thing and cheated.

I was cheated on by someone who I trusted and loved. His excuse was, we weren't getting along. Um, no, he was an idiot made a poor choice and wanted to blame me, guilty liar's often do that. Some how that makes them feel better .

I know it hurts, but someday you'll be thanking God you aren't stuck with him for a Husband.

I am sorry for your pain.
 
Tinkerbell725

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Cheating is a conscious choice. The cheater is the only one to be blamed. If he loved you he would never cheat. Fortunately you are not married yet because God hates divorce.
 
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LiJo

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I'm sorry you're hurting, I understand the pain, been there and survived through it with God's help, he can do the same for you too! I'll be praying for you.
 
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