Thank you...just opened my big fat trap and told my cousin....what support I get from my family *sarcastic smile*
Participants:
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Imogen , <3 Julie<3
Messages:
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<3 Julie<3: N if he says he don't want to see u again?
<3 Julie<3: U will get more upset
Imogen : At least ill know though
<3 Julie<3: Hmm
<3 Julie<3: I know
<3 Julie<3: Jst remember
<3 Julie<3: U no wot he is like at makin promises
<3 Julie<3: N not followin through
<3 Julie<3: Take everythin he says with a pinch of salt
<3 Julie<3: Till he proves wot he says
Imogen : Yeah I know, I hope he's changed though
<3 Julie<3: A pastor my dad nos is goin to his house nxt month tho
<3 Julie<3: He hasnt
<3 Julie<3: He's got worse
<3 Julie<3: He chose to marry a woman n to not talk to his family ever again
<3 Julie<3: He's a silly old man
<3 Julie<3: Who needs to grow up
<3 Julie<3: N take responsibilty
<3 Julie<3: I just hope if u eva see him again it will make u feel better
Imogen : Well ill find out hopefully. I Just hope and pray he's there and willing to take to me
<3 Julie<3: Even if u dnt see him again after
<3 Julie<3: U need to get counsellin after 2
<3 Julie<3: Cos its affected u bad
<3 Julie<3: U no I won't lie to u
<3 Julie<3: Even tho I don't wana upset u
<3 Julie<3: I just. Don't think he wants contact. He's had yrs to. N knows where we all live.I think he's a self centred person
<3 Julie<3: Who cheated on ur mum 2 many times. N left her with nothin. To cope n bring u n pip up
<3 Julie<3: N she's done a very good job
<3 Julie<3: I'd just stick wi ur mum
<3 Julie<3: I'd see him
<3 Julie<3: Make a list of questions u want to ask
<3 Julie<3: Tell him wot u think
<3 Julie<3: N walk away
<3 Julie<3: If he don't contact after
<3 Julie<3: Then he's not even worth it
<3 Julie<3: Ur mum wants loves n needs u
<3 Julie<3: Ur dad is silly
<3 Julie<3: N smells
<3 Julie<3: Lol
Imogen : Maybe he's just scared of what I think of him now
<3 Julie<3: No
<3 Julie<3: I think
<3 Julie<3: He's got his wife
<3 Julie<3: N she said its me of them
<3 Julie<3: N he chose her
<3 Julie<3: He made hisa choice
<3 Julie<3: He's 52 year old man
<3 Julie<3: Actin like a 2 year old
<3 Julie<3: I say
<3 Julie<3: See him
<3 Julie<3: But
<3 Julie<3: It shud b him fightin for u
<3 Julie<3: Not u fightin for him
<3 Julie<3: He is the 1 that left
<3 Julie<3: Don't try so hard wen u get there
<3 Julie<3: U worth more than that
<3 Julie<3: U need counsellin tho
<3 Julie<3: I had it
<3 Julie<3: For 2 yrs
<3 Julie<3: N it works
<3 Julie<3: U can talk bout it all
<3 Julie<3: N sort it out
<3 Julie<3: N u won't cry anymore
<3 Julie<3: Its cos u got so many stuff to ask
<3 Julie<3: N u don't understand y he left
<3 Julie<3: But dnt think he's innocent
<3 Julie<3: He made all the desisions
<3 Julie<3: N they were wrong ones
Imogen : I know he's not...if its her he's just as much to blame as she is. Like he were with sharon
<3 Julie<3: Ye
<3 Julie<3: N the women b4
<3 Julie<3: Just don't get angry wi ur mum or owt
<3 Julie<3: Cos it must b hard on her
<3 Julie<3: N she might feel rejection 2
<3 Julie<3: I wudnt wana c him
<3 Julie<3: As I wud punch him
<3 Julie<3: Lol
<3 Julie<3: Wot does pip think bout it
<3 Julie<3: Is she angry wi him
<3 Julie<3: N don't wana c him
Imogen : I'm not angry with my mum at all
she's willing to go with me if she has to cos I asked EJ and she were gonna go with me but when I asked her last week she said she were getting booked up and then auntie lilians not got back to me so if none of them go my mum said shed rather not get involved but shell go with me
Imogen : Dunno don't really talk to phili about it
Imogen : Know she dunt wanna go though
<3 Julie<3: No
<3 Julie<3: She prob thinks how I do
<3 Julie<3: Where as u wana ask questions
<3 Julie<3: N ask y he aint contacted
Imogen : Nah to be honest I just wanna see him. If she dunt wanna see him that's her choice but I were proper close to my dad when I were younger so that's why its been so hard for me the last five years
<3 Julie<3: I'd go wi ur mum
<3 Julie<3: ye
<3 Julie<3: Wot if he says I don't wana no tho?
Imogen : Seeing all my friends with their dads...its been one of the hardest things I've had to go through
<3 Julie<3: I no
<3 Julie<3: But that his fault not urs
Imogen : Ill just have to deal with that if it comes to it. But no point in thinking negatively about it
Imogen : I wanna go thinking positively but realistically
<3 Julie<3: Ye
<3 Julie<3: Okay
<3 Julie<3: Hope u can sort it soon
Imogen : Yeh
gonna go to bed now cos I'm meant to be going out tomorrow. Ttyl x