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just have more rain coming.... hope everyone is having a awesome day 
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Nah I'm talking about my family....not all of em, not my mum, dad and some of their brothers and sisters but my dad's sister and brother-in-law.....wow....I actually realise how much of a backstabber my auntie is now!! And to think I had the RESPECT not to tell her how much my uncle was upsetting me because I didn't want to cause a family argument!!!
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Yeah I think I've spent too much time with them. I used to visit them every weekend in my first year but now I'm really regretting it, firstly because out of the many weekends we only actually did anything three times, the rest of the time I either sat around twiddling my thumbs pretending to be interested in what they were saying or watching on telly. Secondly, before I first got to see my dad again my family completely let me down by saying they'd take me and they didn't. Thirdly my uncle said some very hurtful things about me.
Just to cut a long story short my uncle was commenting about my weight...basically telling me I was overweight...this happened twice. I used to cry infront of them...I never made it obvious though, were good at hiding it, if I knew I were gonna get really bad I'd just walk out of the room and go upstairs to cry. But one day after the second time hed said it I got so upset that I went upstairs and tried to make myself sick for about two hours because it really upset me. I told my auntie that I'd been trying to make myself sick because of the comments but I refused to tell her who it was because I didn't want to be disrespectful and cause an argument so I just went "I really don't want to say who"...although she were there on both occassions that my uncle said it so how she couldn't work that out I don't know :/ anyway we went to a conference about six weeks ago and one night an argument started...which was between my mum and my sister and my auntie went "you have no respect for your mum" so I just walked out of the room and refused to stay in the same room as her that night. Yeah, I'll admit sometimes I say things that I don't mean to my mum but I'm never intentionally disrespectful towards her. I kept my distance from my auntie for the rest of the week just annoyed that she'd had the guts to say that when first of all she'd been direspectful to me about taking me to see my dad and secondly because I'd allowed my uncle to get away with what he'd said about my weight and had chosen to leave it even though he's up and down with his weight all the time and I've never said he needs to lose weight or anything. But now she's gone and pretty much back stabbed me to her pastor who I know...I found out through him. I didn't know until this morning what she'd said to him but I found out that she'd told him what happened at conference. I'm not happy with her at all!!
Just to cut a long story short my uncle was commenting about my weight...basically telling me I was overweight...this happened twice. I used to cry infront of them...I never made it obvious though, were good at hiding it, if I knew I were gonna get really bad I'd just walk out of the room and go upstairs to cry. But one day after the second time hed said it I got so upset that I went upstairs and tried to make myself sick for about two hours because it really upset me. I told my auntie that I'd been trying to make myself sick because of the comments but I refused to tell her who it was because I didn't want to be disrespectful and cause an argument so I just went "I really don't want to say who"...although she were there on both occassions that my uncle said it so how she couldn't work that out I don't know :/ anyway we went to a conference about six weeks ago and one night an argument started...which was between my mum and my sister and my auntie went "you have no respect for your mum" so I just walked out of the room and refused to stay in the same room as her that night. Yeah, I'll admit sometimes I say things that I don't mean to my mum but I'm never intentionally disrespectful towards her. I kept my distance from my auntie for the rest of the week just annoyed that she'd had the guts to say that when first of all she'd been direspectful to me about taking me to see my dad and secondly because I'd allowed my uncle to get away with what he'd said about my weight and had chosen to leave it even though he's up and down with his weight all the time and I've never said he needs to lose weight or anything. But now she's gone and pretty much back stabbed me to her pastor who I know...I found out through him. I didn't know until this morning what she'd said to him but I found out that she'd told him what happened at conference. I'm not happy with her at all!!
