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For me the question has to be, Do those bits officially belong to me to touch? Or am I young and still going to be dating for a while so are those going to end up being someone else's bit that I have touched?
The other question is, if touching does not lead to sex because I am not married then what is the purpose of arousing myself and the other person, what is the point of that? It only leads to frustration, so why do that to yourself? I hope this helps.
The other question is, if touching does not lead to sex because I am not married then what is the purpose of arousing myself and the other person, what is the point of that? It only leads to frustration, so why do that to yourself? I hope this helps.
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Touching anything that is normally covered by undergarments, will lead people into arousal, which will lead to further sexual temptation. (Yes I know some internet contrarian is thinking..well what if someone doesn't wear undergarments..then what?? huh huh? then does anything go???--*sigh* Of course not. You get the main idea of what I'm getting at.)
We're directed by Jesus to pray, to not be lead into temptation.
When we arouse others and ourselves, we're negating the very command Jesus directs us to pray.
We're told by God not to take advantage of people sexually to meet our lusts or their lusts. When we do such we invite action from God upon us. The very God who gives us the Holy Spirit.
1 Thes 4
These commands are for our own good.
Deut 10
The good news is that God has provided a way for us sinful humans to obey those commands.
It's through trusting 100% in what Jesus did, and not in trusting in our own power to will obedience.
2 Peter 1
So when you see these commands, learn to love them because it is God's perfect way.
Then run to Jesus, because without him, there is no way you can fully obey.
We're directed by Jesus to pray, to not be lead into temptation.
When we arouse others and ourselves, we're negating the very command Jesus directs us to pray.
We're told by God not to take advantage of people sexually to meet our lusts or their lusts. When we do such we invite action from God upon us. The very God who gives us the Holy Spirit.
1 Thes 4
These commands are for our own good.
Deut 10
The good news is that God has provided a way for us sinful humans to obey those commands.
It's through trusting 100% in what Jesus did, and not in trusting in our own power to will obedience.
2 Peter 1
So when you see these commands, learn to love them because it is God's perfect way.
Then run to Jesus, because without him, there is no way you can fully obey.
