Do you ever get accused of being to pushy or preachy? Ever encounter the extremely uncomfortable friend who insists they are more 'spiritual than religious' and then almost act afraid of discussing anything? Ever have someone insist you read the 'God Delusion' and refute its points before they will hear you. yikes. Or what about someone that wants to argue about abortion and homosexuality when you just want them to hear who Jesus is to you first before you bat at political arguments. Its like they are avoiding discussing the author and creator of morality in the first place.
What about the person that gets in my face and says they know I'm not perfect because they know me intimately enough to know I've made some mistakes in life, and they take this as evidence that my whole testimony must somehow not count anymore. Worse is the person who takes advantage of me, abuses me, walks all over me, then accuses me of being an unloving horrible fake christian when I finally set some healthy boundaries.
I'm trying so hard to share my faith with the people I care about the most, but I am starting to feel a little discouraged and shut down. Is anyone else trying to actively witness to friends and family members? Can you give me some tips? I am clearly not very good at this. Is there a class or course where I can learn how to better share my faith and answer the 'same old ' problems and arguments that get thrown at me? I just want people to know what I believe and what Jesus has done for me. It sounds so simple but gets so complicated. Furthermore, this might sound superstitious, but does your life sometimes seem to get more troubled and dramatic when you are trying to witness to people? It's almost like the devil gets mad and throws everything at me but the kitchen sink to intimidate me.
What about the person that gets in my face and says they know I'm not perfect because they know me intimately enough to know I've made some mistakes in life, and they take this as evidence that my whole testimony must somehow not count anymore. Worse is the person who takes advantage of me, abuses me, walks all over me, then accuses me of being an unloving horrible fake christian when I finally set some healthy boundaries.
I'm trying so hard to share my faith with the people I care about the most, but I am starting to feel a little discouraged and shut down. Is anyone else trying to actively witness to friends and family members? Can you give me some tips? I am clearly not very good at this. Is there a class or course where I can learn how to better share my faith and answer the 'same old ' problems and arguments that get thrown at me? I just want people to know what I believe and what Jesus has done for me. It sounds so simple but gets so complicated. Furthermore, this might sound superstitious, but does your life sometimes seem to get more troubled and dramatic when you are trying to witness to people? It's almost like the devil gets mad and throws everything at me but the kitchen sink to intimidate me.