What are you willing to share?

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Strong1

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I think a lot. I analyze, pull apart, pick at and slowly chew issues. (I should have gone into Psycology instead of teaching ;))
I think like myself, most women are quite willing to "share" feelings, thoughts, hurts etc.
Are there men out there that feel the same?
At times i ache for the perspective of a man, where certain questions hover over my head. Many times I go to God. Many times I find answers. .Sometimes sleepless nights.......... I've got the hovering going on again.
Why is it that some people hide the answers, for fear of making themselves vulnerable, when in many cases, their life's circumstances could possibly be someone elses "Help"?

I am willing to help another with my testimony, at any cost.......
How about you?
 
Blain

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well everyone is different we all have different stregnths and weaknesses but that is why are imperfections make us perfect in god's eyes. I mean what if we all had the same stregnths and weaknesses what fun would that be lol. Unfortunatly we all even christians poke fun at each others weaknesses, heck even i am guilty of that. But I think god intended for us to be imperfect in the worlds eyes so he can make us perfect by us walking by faith as he gruadualy molds us. Honestly i think that's pretty genuis by us being weak in some areas we can grow closer to him by growing:D
 
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mainly because its my business. Thats why i dont share much
 
Tommy4Christ

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Strong1 said:
I think a lot. I analyze, pull apart, pick at and slowly chew issues. (I should have gone into Psycology instead of teaching ;))
I think like myself, most women are quite willing to "share" feelings, thoughts, hurts etc.
Are there men out there that feel the same?
At times i ache for the perspective of a man, where certain questions hover over my head. Many times I go to God. Many times I find answers. .Sometimes sleepless nights.......... I've got the hovering going on again.
Why is it that some people hide the answers, for fear of making themselves vulnerable, when in many cases, their life's circumstances could possibly be someone elses "Help"?

I am willing to help another with my testimony, at any cost.......
How about you?
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The greatest testimony is a life that has been crucified with Christ, walking in newness, not in sin and disobedience.

The answers are in Gods word,not someones opinion or feelings,as they can lead you astray.

We all were sinners at one time, some have repented of many vile sins to receivethe mercy from God,and many have not!
Shine as lights in the world!​

Php 2:15 so that you may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation. Among these you shine as lights in the world,
Php 2:16 holding forth the Word of Life, so that I may rejoice with you in the day of Christ, that I have not run in vain nor labored in vain.

The word says those who are OF Christ are called to a higher calling than those who reject Him, or scoff at the truth! We are called to be blameless and harmless, without rebuke, sons of the living God, mixed in with a crooked and perverse world all around us.

To shine as light in this dark world, takes a lot of courage and strength, and a strong desire and commitment to walk blameless in this present world, set apart to be used by our master, Jesus Christ.

Not being a part of the large and popular church system or organization can leave one very isolated and separated from the life they use to love and enjoy, especially all the friends, family, and church people who made us feel welcomed and special, as we joined them in their worldly pastimes and fun and games.

But now, things have changed, for those few who have come to the truth, which can only come through real repentance and faith, leading to a real saving conversion! There are many scriptures that will show how this works, but for now, it’s either or!

Either you have crucified your flesh with all its passions and desires as Galatians 5-24 states, or you have not, and are still double minded, and will not come to the knowledge of the truth, until you do your first works, rev 2-5.

This conversion comes with many changes that must occur as God leads you into more truth and wisdom, and you must yield to His calling, and be prepared to come out from the world, and be separate, love not the word, which doesn't mean you leave this world, but you must be careful how you interact with the world and the things of it!

The word is clear, its calls the true convert to deny self, abstain from all appearances of evil, have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, expose all evil, love not the world, come out from among her, set your mind and heart on things above, keep yourself unspotted from this world, as its passing away and all the vain attractions with it, set no evil thing before your eyes, do not mix the holy with the profane, guard your heart, do not share in the sins of others, and many more admonishments laid out clearly in scripture.

Many will say we have liberty in Christ, and I agree, but this liberty isn't a license to join forces with the world, by putting into our minds and endorsing them as harmless attractions and past times.

God has given His children so much to enjoy, such as His beautiful creation, children, many healthy foods, and most of all His word, which is our joy, and nourishment for our souls to keep us strong against the wiles of the devil and temptation.

All that the world highly esteems and hold dear is passing away, and can only offer temptation to those who follow Christ on the narrow road, but a truly converted heart will manifest this true conversion in their life, by what they put into their minds, is it the word of God and His truth? Or the lies of the world, giving you and your friends and family a poor perception of what a real follower of Christ is!

We are to hold fourth the word of truth, not in vain, or in conceit, but in all humility, power, and passion, putting to death the deeds of the flesh the world highly esteems, by putting on the whole armor of God, being a light to the lost world and our families and friends, even though they may see us as strange and legalistic in standing against the pop culture, and false teaching they hold dear!

When we have opportunities to share the truth, which can be narrow at times, due to the love of the lie now prevalent throughout millions of churches and denominations worldwide, we can boldly stand for it, not just in word but in deed, so let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good deeds, and glorify your father in heaven!

Letting your light shine means you won’t be popular, you will be considered dull and boring to the lost church and world, it means you will stand alone in your convictions, especially when you preach against sin, and the love of the world, and most of all it means to come out from the world, in a radical way, so those who are searching, and open to truth will see a huge difference in what you do, think and say, plus wonder why you don't enjoy all their favorite sports teams, Hollywood movies, games, and worldly attractions that just pacify the flesh for a brief time, but do not satisfy the hunger and thirst within, searching for truth, that will set them free from the bondage's of sin and worldliness once and for all!

This freedom as mentioned comes with a high price! But Jesus made in clear when He said, to repent, go and sin no more, obey my commands, walk worthy of your calling, and seek first His kingdom and His righteousness! Where does your hunger lie? Is it for truth, righteousness, and heart purity? Or for the world and its many attractions, that will leave you high and dry, begging for more as the word and truth slowly gets snubbed out, because the fire is gone, taken captive by the world and the lusts of it!
Tommy

1Jn 5:2 By this we know that we love the children of God, whenever we love God and keep His commandments.
1Jn 5:3 For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments, and His commandments are not burdensome.
1Jn 5:4 For everything that has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that overcomes the world, our faith.
 
RickShafer

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It's pride, plain and simple.
Men are afraid of being considered weak.
Same reason we don't like to cry.
Same reason our lifespans are shorter.
 
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nw2u

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Some things shared would be misunderstood. The ramifications could be devastating to someone. Who wants to take that chance?

I don't know where, in the Bible, God says we have to tell anyone anything, except Him.

I know we are supposed to feed and clothe others. Help them when they are sick or visit them in prison. Not sure what else. If you can do these, you should.

You just don't know who you are sharing with either. Because someone says they will not spread rumors does not mean they are truthful or won't slip. My mum used to say, "Loose lips sink ships."

Whatever is placed on the internet stays there forever, pretty much. You don't want sensitive thoughts or experiences open for interpretation by everyone.
 
RickShafer

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"Confess your faults one to another"
This doesn't mean blab about them to everyone in ear reach.
It means to find a confidant (usually a pastor or fellow believer or soulmate),
and tell what spirit has been bothering you, with them telling you back in accordance
with trust and kinsmenship.
This is one of the founding tenants of AA and all other 'self help' programs.
It really works. You don't have to go into detail.
It helps to share our weaknesses, yet not with just anyone.
 
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OFM

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we should only share what the Lord says wee are able too i am very contempaltive/private christian/person like personal reflection deep prayer and reflection r between you and God alone................
 
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shirley

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im willing to share what the lord jesus christ is doing in my life ; he works on me everyday ; spiritually and blessed i am wth friends on cc wth food ;a home and my family
 
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kenisyes

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I learned that most people think that everyone is like them. The fact is that most people don't analyze the way you do. Without that, they don't think that anything you would like to hear is worth sharing, since they would not care is someone shared it with them.

Most people are busy with their own thoughts, so they don't care to hear anyone else's. Once you learn that life lesson, you stop sharing (or come to chat rooms, where people can read it or not read it).

Actually, if you just show you're willing to listen, most people love to tell you all about themselves.
 
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Strong1

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See, i really love the commentary here! :)
I agree with many things that were posted here, and appreciate the others.......thank you!
 
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