-
Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.
If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!
To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
Y
1. Take the opportunity to live with my grandparents when offered. Would have been better than listenign to my parents scream at each other constantly.
2. Tell the Marine Corps recruiter "no thanks".
3. Never have sex. Ever. Not worth it.
4. Never pick up that first cigarette.
5. Never get a tattoo.
6. Take better care of my teeth. Stated otherwise - quit being such a wimp about dentists.
7. Go to trade school instead of college. I might have had a career. As it is now, I have an education and no skills.
8. Buy that car I had the cash for when I was 15.
2. Tell the Marine Corps recruiter "no thanks".
3. Never have sex. Ever. Not worth it.
4. Never pick up that first cigarette.
5. Never get a tattoo.
6. Take better care of my teeth. Stated otherwise - quit being such a wimp about dentists.
7. Go to trade school instead of college. I might have had a career. As it is now, I have an education and no skills.
8. Buy that car I had the cash for when I was 15.
S
this may be a non-answer, but I would say nothing. For better or worse everything in my past, the good and the bad, has led me to where I am today, and who I am today, and I wouldn't change that for anything. God's ways are above my ways, though I may not understand why everything happened the way they did, I know it was His will, and I find comfort in that 
Yes that is also true too!
yet there are something's I wish I hadn't done ie certain relationship/decisions I made which there has been a negative consequence and there was a time when I lived with regret/disappointment regarding these things.
I would change a few things I would have never stayed with my youngest daughters father now husband thats for sure. I also would have never trusted my mother and her family.... But i also want to add that even the bad things that happened in our lives can turn out to be good. Because we learn from our mistakes or at least most people do....
If I could go back in time I'd tell the social worker the truth. And I'd turn my life over to Christ sooner. That'd change pretty much everything negative in my life now. That being said......
You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
Genesis 50:20.
You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
Genesis 50:20.
D
If I had runaway with my little brother, I wouldn't have finished high school, and he'd be completely ignorant, because he could never have gone to school at all. I also would have never learned how to love Dad.
If I had chosen to go to a different school halfway through college, after college, I wouldn't have been where I was for future-hubby to find me.
If I had not listened to new-hubby's idea of trying out being the housewife kind of woman, I would have had a good enough job to not be there for him when he broke his back. I would have been sole-wage earner, so couldn't be there for him. Instead, we found a job we could do together while his back healed.
If that job hadn't been so lousy that we quit and ended up in a ghetto apartment with no heat, friends of ours would never have offered us a wonderful apartment they were leaving, and another friend wouldn't have offered hubby a job with the federal government as he was leaving. The two things put us right back into middle-class for quite sometime.
If hubby hadn't talked me into living in The City, we wouldn't have been at the right time and place to find this house, no telling what would have happened when our car died, and "The Mother-of-All-Storms" hit, (how would we have gotten food or gotten to work for that 10 days?), and we would have been stuck far away from the medical help we can get now in ten minutes or less.
If hubby hadn't lost his job with the federal government, just as I came down with gallstones, he wouldn't have been here to take care of me, in that time when I didn't know moving me from an operating table caused me permanent chronic pain.
If that disability hadn't hit me, I wouldn't have been here for him while he went through chemo. (I'd have to go to work.) AND, I wouldn't have been home a decade later when he had to go to the hospital for a heart attack.
I see a whole bunch of stuff I'd rather not have gone through, but so much of it gave a way to help each other survive through the hardest, I can't think of anything I'd rather not have happened exactly how it did happen.
I can look back and see why God did that there then.
If I had chosen to go to a different school halfway through college, after college, I wouldn't have been where I was for future-hubby to find me.
If I had not listened to new-hubby's idea of trying out being the housewife kind of woman, I would have had a good enough job to not be there for him when he broke his back. I would have been sole-wage earner, so couldn't be there for him. Instead, we found a job we could do together while his back healed.
If that job hadn't been so lousy that we quit and ended up in a ghetto apartment with no heat, friends of ours would never have offered us a wonderful apartment they were leaving, and another friend wouldn't have offered hubby a job with the federal government as he was leaving. The two things put us right back into middle-class for quite sometime.
If hubby hadn't talked me into living in The City, we wouldn't have been at the right time and place to find this house, no telling what would have happened when our car died, and "The Mother-of-All-Storms" hit, (how would we have gotten food or gotten to work for that 10 days?), and we would have been stuck far away from the medical help we can get now in ten minutes or less.
If hubby hadn't lost his job with the federal government, just as I came down with gallstones, he wouldn't have been here to take care of me, in that time when I didn't know moving me from an operating table caused me permanent chronic pain.
If that disability hadn't hit me, I wouldn't have been here for him while he went through chemo. (I'd have to go to work.) AND, I wouldn't have been home a decade later when he had to go to the hospital for a heart attack.
I see a whole bunch of stuff I'd rather not have gone through, but so much of it gave a way to help each other survive through the hardest, I can't think of anything I'd rather not have happened exactly how it did happen.
I can look back and see why God did that there then.