When God Disappoints You

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I've been praying for certain things for a long time, me and my friends and church. I haven't seen the answers since I started praying. The hardest part is when the answer seems to come and then it disappears-- almost like God is playing games with me. Lately, I felt like God is telling me to relocate to another city and home and job... but there are no open doors there at all! Two doors just seemed to open, then they both closed. I do better with discouragement than disappointment. When I'm discouraged, I can do something to feel better; but not when I'm disappointed. Disappointment just takes the wind right out of my sails, and it usually feels like my disappointment is with God.
 

penknight

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You have to have faithful and be patient. Maybe Lord God is testing your faith, maybe you need to examine yourself, maybe there's something you need to do but haven't done to have your request granted, or maybe you to ask yourself why you really want what you're asking for because something sinful might be it and you may not know.

Sorry, if saying these makes you feel bad.

You shall reap in the due season if you don't give up.

All things work together for the good of those who love God.

Seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all those things will be added unto you.
 
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You have to have faithful and be patient. Maybe Lord God is testing your faith, maybe you need to examine yourself, maybe there's something you need to do but haven't done to have your request granted, or maybe you to ask yourself why you really want what you're asking for because something sinful might be it and you may not know.

Sorry, if saying these makes you feel bad.

You shall reap in the due season if you don't give up.

All things work together for the good of those who love God.

Seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all those things will be added unto you.
No, they don't make me feel bad. I know that only God has the right answers.
 

Lyta137

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I sometimes feel discouraged and disappointed but what comforts me is a scripture in Psalms that says those whose hope is in the Lord will never be disappointed...
Also knowing that even though things seem like they have come to a stand still, my life is in His hands and its upto me to trust him and hold on even in disappointments and discouragement...
 
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zaoman32

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keep hanging on. A lot of times, prayers are not answered when we want them to be, or how we want them to be. A lot of times when God is giving us direction, it can lead completely down an entirely different path than we expected or even hoped for. Don't expect the path of least resistance. If you're following God, and submitting to him, it's not going to be easy, and you're going to find yourself on here going "Holy crap nuggets what do I do?" But to me that's a good sign that you're in the right place at the right time. Keep holding on.
 

garet82

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well i sometime think about this. but hey God never disappoint us. His plan is different with ours. many time we always think that "my will is the best one but we seldom to confirm it or ask what He wants in our life."
so even everything not goes like we want never thinks that "God disappoint you (us) ''

:)
 

p_rehbein

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I've been praying for certain things for a long time, me and my friends and church. I haven't seen the answers since I started praying. The hardest part is when the answer seems to come and then it disappears-- almost like God is playing games with me. Lately, I felt like God is telling me to relocate to another city and home and job... but there are no open doors there at all! Two doors just seemed to open, then they both closed. I do better with discouragement than disappointment. When I'm discouraged, I can do something to feel better; but not when I'm disappointed. Disappointment just takes the wind right out of my sails, and it usually feels like my disappointment is with God.
God doesn't "play games" with His children. And He certainly will NEVER "disappoint" His children. If there is something causing a bridge between man and God, you can be sure that the fault lies with man and NOT God.
 
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isaria

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You can not relocate, move, and make changes?
It is expensive make changes and where and what to?

If you feel that what God wants then try have faith God will open up those doors when the time is right?
Then things may just flow and nothing will stop you from the change needed.


You can feel what.
But if you have so many enemies that they all close doors for you move forward and assess your legal rights or Gods will then you beleive gods will is stronger than all these people even if they are a whole world of people stop you......
Gods will is stronger and more than all stars and all people if they all malicious on you.....to stop you moving to better things and new start. change.


I also want move.
Have bags in storage and sosick live alone in what feels like isolated storage and a waste of a beautiful beings energy, colours, time etc.
I want live with husband in beautiful home.
I could live by myself but then I like energy and myself in aura, eyes who all one is and then husband come when does as I like make love sexually before i die this body.lol but thats not only reason of course.lol.


Look at it this way: at least you have friends.

If you dont receive the answers to your prayers maybe keep asking yourself and god about it.

Maybe you do not get everything you want.
Depends on what you want.

A man told his horrid daughter once "if you work hard enough you can have anything you want."
She had sex so her father be her suga daddy and she kept slaves and looked as if she worked and she got almost everything she wanted because she had a bad father but some things she did not get nomatter what she did or how she whinged "daddy i waaaant it".
Her father was mortified for first time in his life he told her "you cant have Everything you want".


I thought this day "i dont like "the stars" or people.
I used to loooooove people and they loved me.
When I was about 2 yrs i was charity work and my name , title etc was taken etc . Bad things happened i was forsed live as someone and something im not .
After that they only love me in my enemys body. make them feel good .lol .
Illan over.
veil off.

People i saved and helped and worked for when i was 2 yrs stole everything from me and i was raised amoung these bad people all alone.

I have a man i like see as a real friend and he pops up everynow and then and has been nice and helpful.
I have a nickname i name him.

I also feel like a have a husband i am infinity with.

But then again i live alone and where was he....all those yrs..
he may been locked up innocent and raped and used as sex slave as a wild non tame beast or stallion...
then the horrid females take shares and spread lies and bully and one shakes head how are these adults.....


Like you i am also disappointed. With people.
Almost everyone betrays you.

Three years ago I was to receive my money I workaholic for and also my husband and life and someone else stole that from me and had surgery of my time.
People i once loved and adored and way they all treated me was disgusting.
All alone amoung these.


I keep getting told by judges and others "you receive whats yours now".
But that was 3 yrs ago and still not received it.
Others took shares and stole time.
I soft spoken.


My internet hacked and cntrolled what people around me and court did not help restrain order on em in every way shape and form and bring a better people to me and raise to our iran and our better world.........



I think i love them unconditionally but i dont know if i do anymore.
Not even as children.


Im not disapointed in God whatever you call God.....in name....

God tests people, jinn, stars .....


If you chanel a world of people and still .........
you give love and have beautiful ...yet ...
then thats ### up.....



Fakeness amoung other things is disapointing.

For instance two angels gave knowledge of blackmagic to a village to see if they use it.
Was evil magic: torture and death.
They used the magic and it was Gods command they not use magic yet God sent angels to test them.
If they could torture someone they jealous of or better yet torture them and kill them would they. yes was answer.
and then if those they did this to could have revenge would they do it in return....? how many yrs?

The law says they should be punished for black magic but if they cheat on the w.......

God knows that and maybe they punished one day.
I am always alone.
every night and every day.
I am gorgeously wonderful and i have no friends, isolated, had money stolen .....
and these disgusting people get love and me who is wonderful and workaholic and gives and gives gets hated and ......
 
Jan 6, 2012
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I sometimes feel discouraged and disappointed but what comforts me is a scripture in Psalms that says those whose hope is in the Lord will never be disappointed...
Also knowing that even though things seem like they have come to a stand still, my life is in His hands and its upto me to trust him and hold on even in disappointments and discouragement...
Cool pic. Working on it. I've had a lot of people try to encourage me when I was struggling. Most people don't have the right answers, and I've learned from that to be quiet when I meet people who are having a hard time and I don't have anything genuinely from God to say. (See Isa. 50:4.)
 
Jan 6, 2012
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You can not relocate, move, and make changes?
It is expensive make changes and where and what to?

If you feel that what God wants then try have faith God will open up those doors when the time is right?
Then things may just flow and nothing will stop you from the change needed.


You can feel what.
But if you have so many enemies that they all close doors for you move forward and assess your legal rights or Gods will then you beleive gods will is stronger than all these people even if they are a whole world of people stop you......
Gods will is stronger and more than all stars and all people if they all malicious on you.....to stop you moving to better things and new start. change.


I also want move.
Have bags in storage and sosick live alone in what feels like isolated storage and a waste of a beautiful beings energy, colours, time etc.
I want live with husband in beautiful home.
I could live by myself but then I like energy and myself in aura, eyes who all one is and then husband come when does as I like make love sexually before i die this body.lol but thats not only reason of course.lol.


Look at it this way: at least you have friends.

If you dont receive the answers to your prayers maybe keep asking yourself and god about it.

Maybe you do not get everything you want.
Depends on what you want.

A man told his horrid daughter once "if you work hard enough you can have anything you want."
She had sex so her father be her suga daddy and she kept slaves and looked as if she worked and she got almost everything she wanted because she had a bad father but some things she did not get nomatter what she did or how she whinged "daddy i waaaant it".
Her father was mortified for first time in his life he told her "you cant have Everything you want".


I thought this day "i dont like "the stars" or people.
I used to loooooove people and they loved me.
When I was about 2 yrs i was charity work and my name , title etc was taken etc . Bad things happened i was forsed live as someone and something im not .
After that they only love me in my enemys body. make them feel good .lol .
Illan over.
veil off.

People i saved and helped and worked for when i was 2 yrs stole everything from me and i was raised amoung these bad people all alone.

I have a man i like see as a real friend and he pops up everynow and then and has been nice and helpful.
I have a nickname i name him.

I also feel like a have a husband i am infinity with.

But then again i live alone and where was he....all those yrs..
he may been locked up innocent and raped and used as sex slave as a wild non tame beast or stallion...
then the horrid females take shares and spread lies and bully and one shakes head how are these adults.....


Like you i am also disappointed. With people.
Almost everyone betrays you.

Three years ago I was to receive my money I workaholic for and also my husband and life and someone else stole that from me and had surgery of my time.
People i once loved and adored and way they all treated me was disgusting.
All alone amoung these.


I keep getting told by judges and others "you receive whats yours now".
But that was 3 yrs ago and still not received it.
Others took shares and stole time.
I soft spoken.


My internet hacked and cntrolled what people around me and court did not help restrain order on em in every way shape and form and bring a better people to me and raise to our iran and our better world.........



I think i love them unconditionally but i dont know if i do anymore.
Not even as children.


Im not disapointed in God whatever you call God.....in name....

God tests people, jinn, stars .....


If you chanel a world of people and still .........
you give love and have beautiful ...yet ...
then thats ### up.....



Fakeness amoung other things is disapointing.

For instance two angels gave knowledge of blackmagic to a village to see if they use it.
Was evil magic: torture and death.
They used the magic and it was Gods command they not use magic yet God sent angels to test them.
If they could torture someone they jealous of or better yet torture them and kill them would they. yes was answer.
and then if those they did this to could have revenge would they do it in return....? how many yrs?

The law says they should be punished for black magic but if they cheat on the w.......

God knows that and maybe they punished one day.
I am always alone.
every night and every day.
I am gorgeously wonderful and i have no friends, isolated, had money stolen .....
and these disgusting people get love and me who is wonderful and workaholic and gives and gives gets hated and ......
Sorry, Isaria. It sounds like you have been having a very hard time.