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Why don't you look up marriage in that Bible of yours than trace where we got it from and then come back.
What a wonderful idea! I think I will do just that....
Wow, what a fascinating study that was. You know what? In the Old Testament, "marriage" has nothing to do with love. It is a property transaction, a legal contract between one family and another. Not only does a man never marry a man, or a woman a woman, but a woman never has a choice in the matter. A father "gives a daughter" in marriage. Older men have a choice, but women never do. Hmmm. Is that model really what we want to be emulating? Is that really Godly? Is this a case where the Bible is being PROscriptive or DEscriptive?
In the New Testament, both Jesus and Paul speak of getting rid of marriage altogether. The institution -- which up to then had been a legal contract of the exchange of a possession was part of the Old Covenant. Now we were under the "New Covenant," and marriage was null and void. In the Kingdom of God, a woman does not belong to a man, but both woman and man belong to God. The old understanding of marriage, in which a woman is sold to a man in a contract, is completely obsolete. In the early church, men and women gave their lives to God, not to one another. No one was married to another. Or, looking at it from another perspective, every person is married to each other: everyone in a particular church is married to every other member, as a community, and called to be as husbands and wives to each other, to serve each other as Christ served us.
This is what "marriage" means in the Bible. In the Old Testament, it is a property sale. In the New, it should be banished completely.
Now, the next part of what you asked, to find out "where we got it from," is more difficult. This requires a look into Western Civilization and a lesson in history. The word "marriage" was continued to be used as a legal contract for centuries, even in Christian communities, in the Old Testament sense of the word. Women were sold as property, as commodities to be traded. Although many Christian communities recognized that this was wrong, and rebelled against this, the establishment held this tradition until very recently. Marriage never had anything to do with love or sexual fidelity. It had to do with property rights and inheritance. Again, in most communities, this practice was very sexist. Men were never expected to remain sexually faithful. At times in history it was more shameful for a man NOT to have several mistresses, or even a gay lover. In some periods in history, it was also "fashionable" for women (of certain social castes) to take on lovers. This was tricky, however, because a woman had to be careful not to get pregnant by someone other than her husband, for inheritance purposes. It was important, because it was all about inheritance. The marriage was about two families merging, usually for political reasons, and offspring from such a marriage were given certain parcels of land to rule.
This may sound silly to anyone who has lived in the US their whole lives. Leaders aren't born, they're elected by the populace. Marriage isn't political, it's about love and commitment. Well, that is a very recent development. That sentiment has only been around for the last 200 years or so -- a mere flash compared to all of human history. When marriage was about offspring and inheritance, it made perfect sense that two men or two women could not marry. They could not have offspring, and there would be no political gain in such a contract. But now that marriage has changed its status from a political contract to a statement of love and commitment, why would it not include gays, who are just as capable of love and commitment (and in some cases, are more faithful than a lot of heterosexual I know)?
So, where do we get "marriage" from? Well, it certainly isn't the Bible. The term has changed meanings over time. The understanding of what "marriage" means today is certainly different from what it meant 500 years ago. Heck, it's different today from what it meant 50 years ago! (And that may not be such a good thing, with the divorce rate up over 50%.) If you really want to revert to what it meant in Biblical times, you're going to have to revert to a time when women were little better than cattle, and I think you're going to get a lot of flack for that. (Not to mention the problem that polygamy is completely Biblical.)
No, "marriage" today is not the same as "marriage" in the Old Testament. And since both Jesus and Paul spoke out against "marriage" of any kind, I'd say the Church ought to be just fine with letting the secular world have that word, not seeing it as a sacred at all. Why make sacred what God has already profaned?
Trust me, you're not going to teach me anything about a Bible.
I don't doubt that. Not because I don't know more than you do. I probably know some things about the Bible that you don't, just as you probably know some things about the Bible that I don't. And I would very much like to learn what you know. But I know you will never learn from me, because your mind is closed, and there are none so blind as them who will not see.
And no, I would never wear cotton poly blends.
That's amazing. You must hand-make all your own clothing, then, because it's almost impossible to find manufactured clothing these days that's 100% pure. In fact, you must grow your own sheep, shear them, and spin the wool yourself, to ensure that it's the same breed of sheep. Because even if you buy cloth at a fabric store, you can't be sure that it's kosher. I have to say, I am really impressed. How many acres do you live on, able to keep all the different animals separated as the Bible commands?
Why didn't you read the entire quote you quoted before responding? I clearly did bot condemn the person but the act. Like it's in the Bible.
Ummm ... I did read your entire post. I'm not sure what you're responding to here. I didn't accuse you of condemning anyone. You may have me confused with someone else on another thread? I, too, am simply applying Biblical principles. I think gay people should live by Christian principles as much as straight people, and should remain pure and upright. Like you, though I don't just them, I just love them.