welcome
well yes,
the problem seems to be that people interpret "born again" differently
From my understanding the bible says we have to
- Accept Christ as our savior
- Repent (this is not a one- time thing. Being humans we will sin, but we have to at least make an effort to stop, and ask forgiveness when we don't succeed)
- Be baptized
- Love ("if I have faith that can move moutains but have not love I gain nothing")