First and foremost you need to ask God to heal you have hurt and pain that will lead to bitterness. I know what you are going through can not be easy and my heart is going out to God for you even now. God loves you more than you know and He is a God of forgiveness, you will not go to hell for divorcing your husband based on his infidelity. Revelations 22:15 doesnt say anything about a woman who divorces her husband being outside the gates...Read it. God doesnt want us divorce because it leads to family problems down the road and marriage is a union of man and woman before God. You need to pray for Godly wisdom and advice ask God what is His plan for you right now in this situation..how can you give God glory and come out as pure gold
...believe it or not this isnt the end God still has His hands on you. I pray you two are going to a counselor that is basing his/her advice out of the word of God...only God can make the crooked paths straight and only God has the power to heal. God loves you and seek Him at this time in your life with you whole heart and soul. He is the repairer of the breach...
[h=3]Isaiah 58:12[/h]
12 Those from among you
Shall build the old waste places;
You shall raise up the foundations of many generations;
And you shall be called the Repairer of the Breach,
The Restorer of Streets to Dwell In
and most of all forgive yourself and dont feel guilty for not knowing or like you caused this, there is no excuse to commit adultery ...I am here if you need a friend
2livsChrist