Mad with someone in the chat

but im not telling you who i got mad with, but just pray for me, that God will remove this anger in my life and be able to forgive me.. today is the only day i have no mood in cc and wasn't happy with it. I was singing and then people start saying things like im hogging the mic and so on, it was like, i am feeling threatened by people around me. all i did was just singing, nothing much. But people start hurting my feelings and you know im the person who are sensitive towards some issue. But all i wanna say is that, please pray for me, that God will forgive me.

aww Terry I will pray for you!!! I am so sorry!!!

I'll pray for you.
You know, God has already forgiven you. I'd have liked to listen to you sing.
Take care!
Rosi

Hang in there! CC is a good place to be encouraged but also is sometimes where it's easiest to be hurt the worst, since we tend to assume that the people chatting here want to have good Christian fellowship (and sometimes that just honestly isn't their motives). I'm glad that you are aware that even though someone hurt you, your anger is still sinful! So many people don't want to acknowledge that. I am blessed to hear that you know this, and are praying for forgiveness; thanks for setting a good example of how to respond when we realize we are having an ungodly attitude. I'll be praying that you, with God's help, can continue to come here and chat, acting with gracious love and forgiveness toward the other person. Sometimes I wish we had Ephesians 4:29 plastered all over this site. It would definitely be good guidelines for what we should be saying to each other! I'm praying for you.

You have to bear in mind some people come on to CC to TALK not listen to people sing. There is a room designated for people who want to sing/play music, called YouSing. Some people get annoyed when others insist on disrupting chat with singing or music. I am one of them. I do not come on here to listen to others sing, i come on here to talk. I never go into YouSing... why? Because thats not why i'm here.

I agree with Ugly.

It's all part of your personal growth Terry. Learning to deal with difficult people and people who think differently than you will make you a better, wiser, and more experienced person.

So relax ... just Relax... RELAX!!!! lololol...

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May God give you understanding and forgiveness toward other people. Bitterness only hurts you. Remember we all fall short. God bless

shoooot only reason why i joined cc was to hear fantastic singers like my cousin terry sing on chat.

but brother, have you noticed lately some ppl sing in the lounge despite of looking for the room yousing.. i think probably those people wanna show off just thinking.. if you know those people who sing in the lounge i think you probably know who that person is.. i only sing when no one is using the mic. or when it is awfully quiet just to entertain people..

Still doesn't change the fact that some people just don't want to hear it. Again, thats the whole idea of the YouSing room. If you want to sing or listen to people sing, there is a room designated for that. Just like if you want to speak Spanish there's a room for that. Or utilize YouTube, that' s why there's a a room for that. It's all really simple, but people just have the attitude that they don't care, so people do what they want, and when others wish they would take it to the appropriate room, it creates conflict.

Lets sing the purple Barney dino song..all together now ..i love you , u love me we're one happy familly and a great big hug and a kiss from me to you... Wont u say you love me toooo , yeahhhh QUACK QUACK!!

Hi Terry...

I am sorry that the chatroom put you down, and that it seemed everyone was all in a sudden against you. That is how a chatroom can become at times, and the worst is whenever we'd feel as attacked by others when we didn't do anything bad nor when we didn't deserved it. I have also seen many times that people in the Lounge room starts playing some music or singing in there when it is supposed being random, as well as I have seen people in the prayer room using the room for more random talking than praying. If one are to judge what you did in one room whilst being open for doing differently in another room, I think one should be careful with judging in the first place.

Also; I know how it is coming into one chatroom, sharing my opinion and then to see everyone grouping against me, whilst some are quiet. It hurts and makes one more sad if you feel like you are standing there alone whilst everyone else supports each others, as well as I have been wondering if someone of those being quiet might agree with some opinions of mine but deciding to just keep quiet so that they won't get others from the chatroom being against them. Still, it does helps sometimes that other people can stand up with you no matter if everyone else decides being against you and that other person. It is brave standing up and supporting another person when all the crowd goes against one, of course, when the other person also agrees with you, or knows and understands what you are talking about.

Just know; Whenever this happens it is best going out from the chatroom, calml down one self, and then when you have calmed down from all of the boiling going on inside of you, then it is easier to think much more clearer and to getting more stable again with those chaotic emotions that just were arosing up within you. As well as it is easier handling everything with much more peace if going back again into the chatroom later on. You are not alone on this. ((Hug))