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I am sixty-three and have been married for four years. Previously I was married almost thirty-six years when my husband passed away with a massive heart attack. Right now I am in a delima. I really want to leave this situation that I have found myself in. I do care about what happens to this man, therefore it is hard to make this move. After marrying him I have found out that he does not love me and that he only married me to have someone take care of him. He is sixty-four and is a vietman vetern who has lost one of his legs at the knee. He also has other health issues. I do not have any help from either one of his children from his previous marriage. I am a 24/7 glorified caregiver, having to help get him up out of bed, commode, chairs and do other intimate things for him.The other night I told him my back was hurting; and his coment to me was that his back hurts him all the time. I know that I am responsible for where I am but right now I am hurting mentally, phiscally, and feel like that if I do not do something to help myself that I will not be living long. How do you walk away from someone that is handicapped? I feel very angry and used. I know that my help comes from the Lord and I do believe. But in this I have lost my joy, my life and I have alot of anger; please pray and if you have any suggestions about the right steps I should take financially, I only have a small social security check.