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gforevermetwo

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Hi I find my self new to this. I find myself alone and lonely more in the evenings and at night. My husband and I were saved 2 days before we got married, in fact it was Feburary 27 1976, we got married leap year day Feburary 29 1976. It was 33 wonderful years growing older together, growing up in the Lord and raising our children. May 11th 2009 GOD felt he needed my husban in heaven more than I needed him here with me. So GOD took the best part of us away and just left me.I didnt realize how much of who I was came from him. Now I can't figure out how to stop the love till death do u part of the ceremony. So far Im not doing a very good job of it.
Today is my aniverasary 34 years, and I cant figure out how to celebrate it without him, Thanks for listening.
Sad little Starlight.

 
daddycat

daddycat

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I know what you're talking about. Although my marriage lasted only three years before I lost my wife to cancer, we were best friends for ten years before that. When I said "till death us do part" I meant it. I just never thought that day would come so soon. In many ways, even though it's been five years now, I feel like I'm still married to someone who is gone. I wrote a poem a few years ago (the only one ever), pouring out my feelings of the moment regarding my loss, and I included the line, "She's with Jesus now... my baby left me for another man." I know it's an odd statement in the context, but I did almost feel like... How come He gets to have her, and I don't?

Like you, I'm not out of this woods yet, by any means. I'm truly sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers, such as they are.
 
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gforevermetwo

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daddy cat thank u. It means a lot to hear from others when u feel so alone. thanks again , Gail
 
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Johan

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hi sad littl starlight i might b only 18 but i know lonely...i won go too deep on dat but i kina m still holdn on to the only hope iv got thats Christ ...duh..hehe..sorry but i tend to laugh for anytn...so ppl don evr notice mainside world...i jst wan u to kno ur nevr lonely nevr are n nevr will be...cuz C hrist's always watchn makn sure u don cry makn sure u don fall...u kno wat i think..?m a kinda solitary person so i cry alone and lately dd i actually think that wen it rains Christ's cryn for me..n wen d wind blows he's wipn away my every tear...
m really sorry for ur loss...ill b prayn for u n u won b sad ltl anymre cz UR NEVR ALONE...LOOK AROUND U HE'S DER JST WATCHN U N WAITN FOR U TO TALK TO HIM...
wow 34 years thats beautiful my parents hav jst completed 25 n im gona be 19..aaaaaaaaahhhh grown old..:(..hehe..nyways tc n luv u will b prayn for u..GOD BLESS U..!!
 
resurrection33

resurrection33

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Hi, gforevermetwo, welcome to CC.

I am sorry about your loss. I’ve never married, and I enjoy being alone. I’m not always alone, of course. For instance, I have a great church that gives me lots of support.

I was lonely when my dad first died, but the pain long ago left me and my dad is now a great memory. I look forward to seeing him again when I pass on.
 
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iliketurtles

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hey! im sorry about your loss. i hope you find the support and encouragement here that you would like. we're glad to have you =)
 
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