How to abstain from sex anti contraceptive Christians?

And people have also been given ‘free will’ to choose to use that knowledge.

Also, remember when God told Adam and Eve to stay away from that tree of knowledge? Yeah, then there’s that knowledge too....

The question is how not to have sex sister

the way it is worded is very strange in your OP and the title


to not give into temptation

requires deliverance

to lower the chances of certain temptations usually requires a change of lifestyle

before you sin by giving into temptations

you feel tempted

these initial thoughts can manifest as memories
or imaginations (images or actions in your mind)
or just desires to actually DO something lustful

we can examine the fact we are feeling these temptations and bring them to our Father in prayer

"please God.....i keep getting these unfruitful thoughts and i know no good comes from these before i do something stupid please deliver me from these thoughts/feelings"

obviously it works.... God will deliver you from temptations but its not always just a couple seconds of prayer

maybe at work youll be praying in your mind for a half an hour before it goes away
but then it may come back

then you repeat the process



if tv or movies or video games or music or habits or certain people trigger these temptations often

this is where the change of lifestyle comes into play

you FLEE away from what is causing you to stumble

and towards what brings you closer to God

The question is how not to have sex sister? will your husband release his semen by hand, drink a lot of beer until he falls asleep or to overwork.

if you say using a condom, then it is still using contraceptives and you have sex with your husband using it.

Not to take a bath? common can you endure that? what if you're a working woman? will your work mates bear to smell your body for not taking a bath?

I was kidding. Which was maybe unkind of me, as you're clearly really struggling with this whole subject.

I don't think you're going to find an answer to this that you'll be content with. Most of us who've been replying to your threads live in countries where it's a simple matter to obtain multiple types of birth control methods with a simple trip to the nearest pharmacy, or a quick consultation with a doctor. We've been brought up in a culture where the overall attitude is "People are going to have sex, so they might as well be safe about it". The idea of abstinence is largely ignored, save for within a few religious groups- and even there, the only "method" of abstaining is by self-control (i.e, as I said, just not having sex).

The Bible talks about exercising self-control in sexual matters- and if you can't, then you should marry. Nowhere does it say that once you're married, you should then abstain from sex in order to avoid making babies. If you are married, you're supposed to be freely offering yourself to your spouse. If you and your spouse do not want children, then the reasonable conclusion to draw is that you should use some form of contraceptive- because, as I mentioned, the Bible DOES say not to deprive your spouse of sex, and it does NOT say you are not to use contraceptives.

It seems that your threads on this topic are merely going in circles now. You don't like your country and what Catholicism teaches about having children; you don't want to use any form of birth control; you seem to want some easy way to abstain from sex. I think it's time you took your concerns directly to God and hash it out with Him. Nobody on this site is going to be able to tell you whatever it is you want to hear.

Perhaps I misunderstood the OP.... I thought he was wanting to know how to minimize sexual urges in a marriage relationship?
In that instance, there is no lust involved... only desire for intimacy with your spouse. I'm not sure that all the admonitions against fornication and lust are pertinent to the OP.

Did I miss something?

I am really looking for an answer about how to eliminate the sexual urge of couple if in my country, there are lack of supply of contraceptives.

Because in return i’ll Advise my brethren in faith how to do birth control w/o using contraceptives.

Ohh...this all makes a little more sense now.

I'll start by saying that I think it's a...noble...pursuit. But I think you may find that it's very difficult to convince people to simply abstain from having sex, no matter how many good, logical reasons you give them for doing so.

Your country could certainly benefit from standardized sex education classes, readily available contraceptives, and a lot less Catholic influence over everyone...but even if you could convince a few couples to abstain, how will that truly change anything?

Do you have a bigger plan than simply trying to tell people to stop having sex?

Personally I believe that sex is unavoidable for loving couple. This is the reason why I am posting here that using contraceptive is a sin it depends on the situation.

It is a sin if it will be used in fornication or extramarital affairs but not a sin if you just want to make love and don't want to procreate because you cannot afford to raise a child/children.

To tell you the truth sister, my country now has a law where the government has in the position to give free contraceptives even in the poorest communities. so my country has almost no more Catholic influence.

I agree with sex education but sadly a lot of our politicians were influenced by our Catholic clergy that having sex education classes is bad and only parents should teach their children about sexuality.

I have ideas I don't know if these are sound pieces of advice about how to do birth control w/o using contraceptives. Just tell me which are the best among the ff:

1) releasing semen by hand if you feel libido in your body (for males)

2) overwork until you exhausted and fall asleep

3) drink sleeping pills

4) drink beers if there are no sleeping pills in your nearest drug stores.

Personally I believe that sex is unavoidable for loving couple. This is the reason why I am posting here that using contraceptive is a sin it depends on the situation.

It is a sin if it will be used in fornication or extramarital affairs but not a sin if you just want to make love and don't want to procreate because you cannot afford to raise a child/children.

To tell you the truth sister, my country now has a law where the government has in the position to give free contraceptives even in the poorest communities. so my country has almost no more Catholic influence.

I agree with sex education but sadly a lot of our politicians were influenced by our Catholic clergy that having sex education classes is bad and only parents should teach their children about sexuality.

I have ideas I don't know if these are sound pieces of advice about how to do birth control w/o using contraceptives. Just tell me which are the best among the ff:

1) releasing semen by hand if you feel libido in your body (for males)

2) overwork until you exhausted and fall asleep

3) drink sleeping pills

4) drink beers if there are no sleeping pills in your nearest drug stores.

Personally I believe that sex is unavoidable for loving couple. This is the reason why I am posting here that using contraceptive is a sin it depends on the situation.

It is a sin if it will be used in fornication or extramarital affairs but not a sin if you just want to make love and don't want to procreate because you cannot afford to raise a child/children.

It's a sin to use birth control while having an affair with someone other than your husband or wife? WOW.. That is crazy. It's a great thing to use birth control so the people don't get an STD, which commonly happens when cheaters sleep with multiple partners. Too many people are too eager to get all hot and horny and jump in the sack for a romp in the sheets, and don't bother using protection. Then they get pregnant or contract an STD. Then they moan about how they don't want a kid, and are angry that they got an STD. Well, if they'd used protection in the first place, that wouldn't be happening to them now..

Ok...so if contraceptives are given out for free, why not encourage more people to use them?