Am I meant to be Single?

Marriage is never promised in the bible. Some attempt to twist Eve as evidence of marriage but in context that is never actually stated. It's just people applying meaning to scripture that doesn't exist.
I'm 42 and never married. No prospects and have enough working against me I don't foresee I ever will. The sooner you accept you aren't promised marriage the easier it will be.

I agree with you on a certain part of your post, sometimes I feel like I am not ready to marry. Since, I still live my parents (Rather own my own house.) Although, I think they need the help a lot of times here with my stepfather being retired (fishing for his job.) that is a real story and sells flies for fly fishing. My mom is making ends meet but working two jobs, Then my other brother is on the very shy side in which he doesn't work, but help out when our biological father got murdered with his survivor benefits but that was awhile ago. Although on the other hand cousins of my family still lived with their parents. I don't drive for a variety of reasons one is that I am kind of lazy the other I don't have much time on my hand with work part time, and going to school full time. Though, to continue on I feel the urge that somewhere in life I remember watching ChaseGodTV a you tube channel. Somewhere in my life I feel like I chasing after trying to gain a relationship with a lady/women. Instead of chasing after God...

I can't give no words of comfort, cause there will be no comfort.

I was listening to a lecture this morning. Interesting points were made, that from experience, seem true.

Although men generally pursue women, it's really women who select their mate. They are the ones in the position to make all the reproductive choices. Because of this, they can be very picky, as they should be. Women select mates that will be able to provide them with the most resources, and healthiest offspring. Women will absolutely choose the male that has the highest education, most accumulated wealth, and best perceived looks. Wealth is resources for bringing up offspring, and good looks are an indication of good health.

The lecturer started that this is evident in the fact that there is no shortage of males who have no mates or offspring, there is a very high amount of makes who will never have a single sexual experience with a female, and most females will have at least one child, and multiple sexual partners.

I don't think a male, living with his parents, into adulthood, is going to have a fighting chance.

Btw..its nice to see your pic in your avitar..most are too "shy" here..lol

I'm not shy, I just don't like pictures of me. This feline looks better than I do.

I dont like pics of me either but i DO like to see who im chatting with..its like going out for coffee and the other person has a bag over thier head..the pic isnt for YOU..its for the benefit of others

Then pretend I'm a furry, with a cat mask over my head.

You got to realize you're in the singles forum. People are here cause they're single. The reasons for being single vary. Some have anxiety, some have been hurt my lovers before, a very few chose to be, and some are so damned ugly.

Lol...pretty..ugly..inbetween..everyone has a face..seems to me..by not showing it might ADD to thier lonely singleness..single yes..but put yourself put there and be PROUD of who you are..your marital status..or lack of it..shouldnt define you as a person! Oh well..maybe im too transparent for my own good

Like I wrote, some are ugly, and some CHOOSE.

Well..again..for all of you that CHOOSE to post your pic on your avitar and dont think youre ugly..THIS woman APPRECIATES it..lol hehrhehe

I'm the world's sexiest man alive. Why wouldn't I use my pic?

You got to realize you're in the singles forum. People are here cause they're single. The reasons for being single vary. Some have anxiety, some have been hurt my lovers before, a very few chose to be, and some are so damned ugly.