Can no longer separate sex from sin

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HistoryPrincess, if you don't like sex then that's okay. Just live without it. :)
But I don't think it's a sin to have sex. Not at all. It's a gift from God for two people that love each other and are married.
 
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HistoryPrincess, if you don't like sex then that's okay. Just live without it. :)
But I don't think it's a sin to have sex. Not at all. It's a gift from God for two people that love each other and are married.
Then why is there no sex in heaven? Everything else will remain or be glorified except our sex drives.
 
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Then why is there no sex in heaven? Everything else will remain or be glorified except our sex drives.
We're not going to have physical bodies in Heaven at least not how we have them here...
 

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Hebrews 13:4
4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Mark 10:6-9
6 “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ 7‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8 and the two will become one flesh.’So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

Proverbs>5
18 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.

19 A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.,...

Song of Songs 7:6 going on
6 How beautiful you are and how pleasing, my love, with your delights!

7 Your stature is like that of the palm, and your breasts like clusters of fruit.

8 I said, “I will climb the palm tree; I will take hold of its fruit.” May your breasts be like clusters of grapes on the vine, the fragrance of your breath like apples,


Saying that desire is sin is nonsense

Now to your verses.
Romans 6:6 is takling about dying IN CHRIST and not dying all in all. So you definitely did NOT read the context. Only if we die with him (our old self dying by being born again) we can be set free of sins by his grace. thats the message


What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? 3 Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.
5 For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly also be united with him in a resurrection like his. 6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with,[a] that we should no longer be slaves to sin— 7 because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.
8 Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him.9 For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. 10 The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God.
11 In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus. 12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires. 13 Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness. 14 For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.

Next post will be going through the other verses
 

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For that matter, the Bible itself views the body negatively, especially in the New Testament.

And this hatred of life itself permeates the entire New Testament. The body is totally sinful. Only by dying can we escape sin. (Rom.
6:6) We must mortify the flesh, for only the spirit is good. (Rom. 7:14-25, 13:14) The flesh and the spirit are totally opposed. (Gal. 5:16) One must sacrifice this life for the next. (Mat. 16:24, 18:7, Mk. 9:43, 10:23) Any suffering is to be endured in this life for the greater glory of the next. (Rom. 8:18) He who loves this life will die, he who hates it will live eternally ... (Jn. 12:25) One should live in constant guilt and fear of Hell. (Mat. 5:27) Christians should not laugh or be happy. (Eph. 5:4) Be wretched, cringe, weep, do not be happy and you will be saved. (Jas. 4:9) Paul even says he whips himself (Cor. 9:27), and (Cor. 11:1) we must all imitate him!

Romans 7
talking about the inner fight between good (Gods law) and evil (sin) due to our sinful nature and how at the end through Jesus Christ you get free in verse 25
What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? 25 Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!

Gal 5 is about the fruits of the spirit and the fruits of evil and how, depending on whom you serve, what you reap and sow. also that love your neighbor as yourself flfills the law, written in our hearts and that we are to serve one another and not commit sins like these because we will reap them


13 You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh[a]; rather, serve one another humbly in love. 14 For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”[b] 15 If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.
16 So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 17 For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever[c] you want. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited,provoking and envying each other.

Matthew 16 again you reap what you sow and if you are with God you will not taste death. Plus you have to prepared to die as we will be hunted as well.

23 Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.”
24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 25 For whoever wants to save their life[f] will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it. 26 What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? 27 For the Son of Man is going to come in his Father’s glory with his angels, and then he will reward each person according to what they have done.
28 “Truly I tell you, some who are standing here will not taste death before they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.”


Mark 9 pretty self explainitory again

38 “Teacher,” said John, “we saw someone driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop, because he was not one of us.”
39 “Do not stop him,” Jesus said. “For no one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me, 40 for whoever is not against us is for us. 41 Truly I tell you, anyone who gives you a cup of water in my name because you belong to the Messiah will certainly not lose their reward.
Causing to Stumble
42 “If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them if a large millstone were hung around their neck and they were thrown into the sea. 43 If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out. [44] [b]45 And if your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life crippled than to have two feet and be thrown into hell. [46] [c]47 And if your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell, 48 where
“‘the worms that eat them do not die,
and the fire is not quenched.’[d]
49 Everyone will be salted with fire.

Mark 10 is about the rich (moloch=money followers) not being able to come to God as easily as poor

18 “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. 19 You know the commandments: ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, you shall not defraud, honor your father and mother.’[d]”
20 “Teacher,” he declared, “all these I have kept since I was a boy.”
21 Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
22 At this the man’s face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth.
23 Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!”
24 The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again, “Children, how hard it is[e] to enter the kingdom of God! 25 It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”
26 The disciples were even more amazed, and said to each other, “Who then can be saved?”
27 Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”

Next post will be dealing with more of your scriptures
 

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For that matter, the Bible itself views the body negatively, especially in the New Testament.

And this hatred of life itself permeates the entire New Testament. The body is totally sinful. Only by dying can we escape sin. (Rom.
6:6) We must mortify the flesh, for only the spirit is good. (Rom. 7:14-25, 13:14) The flesh and the spirit are totally opposed. (Gal. 5:16) One must sacrifice this life for the next. (Mat. 16:24, 18:7, Mk. 9:43, 10:23) Any suffering is to be endured in this life for the greater glory of the next. (Rom. 8:18) He who loves this life will die, he who hates it will live eternally ... (Jn. 12:25) One should live in constant guilt and fear of Hell. (Mat. 5:27) Christians should not laugh or be happy. (Eph. 5:4) Be wretched, cringe, weep, do not be happy and you will be saved. (Jas. 4:9) Paul even says he whips himself (Cor. 9:27), and (Cor. 11:1) we must all imitate him!
Romans 7/8 we are no slaves, we share suffering with God, everyone even the creation awaits to be set free of the curse/bondages etc

14 For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.15 The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.[f] And by him we cry, “Abba,[g] Father.” 16 The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. 17 Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.
18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. 19 For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. 20 For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope 21 that[h] the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.

John 12 Jesus predicts his death who loves live=sinners will loose their life and the folowers of God who dont indulge and become a friend of the wold will live
20 Now there were some Greeks among those who went up to worship at the festival. 21 They came to Philip, who was from Bethsaida in Galilee, with a request. “Sir,” they said, “we would like to see Jesus.” 22 Philip went to tell Andrew; Andrew and Philip in turn told Jesus.
23 Jesus replied, “The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified.24 Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. 25 Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life. 26 Whoever serves me must follow me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will honor the one who serves me.
27 “Now my soul is troubled, and what shall I say? ‘Father, save me from this hour’? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour. 28 Father, glorify your name!”

Matthew 5 talks about adultery
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[e]28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

Ephesians 5 you couldnt have interpreted this worse. This talks about not dealing and being around busy bodies and gossipers.

3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.[a] 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.

* I dont know which book you meant with Jas and you did not add which of the 2 books of corintheans u are talking about
 
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Some gave themself into marriage against God with woman and the woman brought Giants to this world.
We don't know that for sure.

And sex will have served its purpose so having it for pleasure is pointless anyway.
 

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We don't know that for sure.

And sex will have served its purpose so having it for pleasure is pointless anyway.
No because you become one through not just the act but through the pleasure and connection. God doesnt make us birthing mashines, otherwise every woman would get pregnant every time.
Of course we know about the giants/ nephilim
Its biblically, historically AND even scientifically proven that they existed and the bible (and one of the apocryphicals) talk and show it. Thats why God sent the flood during the time of noah
 

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They will be like the angels, neither marrying nor given over to marriage.
I believe that there was mentioned in the bible that some of the angels had sex.

Regarding marriage, this is a convenient between a man, a woman and God and is binding until death of one or the other. In heaven there will be no death so therefore there will be no marriage in heaven either. Any relationship between a man and a woman in heaven where sex is involved, if any, would necessarily be called something different then marriage.

Seems strange, endless universe but no longer any population added to what already exists. I believe that in the book of Isaiah there is mention of people in heaven having homes and tending a garden. What's the point of that if there is no romance, intimacy or sexual relations? No more children. being created either Seems pointless.

Maybe heaven is a boring place but God does say that we cannot imagine what God has in store for those that love Him. I choose to go with that flow.
 
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No because you become one through not just the act but through the pleasure and connection. God doesnt make us birthing mashines, otherwise every woman would get pregnant every time.
Of course we know about the giants/ nephilim
Its biblically, historically AND even scientifically proven that they existed and the bible (and one of the apocryphicals) talk and show it. Thats why God sent the flood during the time of noah
Sorry to get coarse here. But whether you like it or not, that is the only purpose of sex. Men have semen which contains sperm. Sperm fertilizes the egg and the woman gets pregnant.

Really? I've never heard of this. And that is not the reason why God sent the flood. He sent it because of widespread wickedness in general.
 

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Some gave themself into marriage against God with woman and the woman brought Giants to this world.
We don't know that for sure.

And sex will have served its purpose so having it for pleasure is pointless anyway.
It's known for sure because it is a biblical fact. The purpose for sex is not just the means for having children but for pleasure too because that is the way God designed it. Based on my experience, sex for pleasure is definitely not pointless. God says that the two shall become one flesh? Really, what do you think this means?
 
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I believe that there was mentioned in the bible that some of the angels had sex.

Regarding marriage, this is a convenient between a man, a woman and God and is binding until death of one or the other. In heaven there will be no death so therefore there will be no marriage in heaven either. Any relationship between a man and a woman in heaven where sex is involved, if any, would necessarily be called something different then marriage.

Seems strange, endless universe but no longer any population added to what already exists. I believe that in the book of Isaiah there is mention of people in heaven having homes and tending a garden. What's the point of that if there is no romance, intimacy or sexual relations? No more children. being created either Seems pointless.

Maybe heaven is a boring place but God does say that we cannot imagine what God has in store for those that love Him. I choose to go with that flow.
Intimacy can exist without sex and romance. That's one reason we have such bleak social conditions. We think sex = intimacy.
 

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Sorry to get coarse here. But whether you like it or not, that is the only purpose of sex. Men have semen which contains sperm. Sperm fertilizes the egg and the woman gets pregnant.

Really? I've never heard of this. And that is not the reason why God sent the flood. He sent it because of widespread wickedness in general.
God would have not made us able to enjoy it if we shouldnt.Plus the bible is full with examples of pleasant sex.
The angels had nephilim with the woman which started to terrorize and spill blood everywhere. Check it out. Thats how it rose to the point God had to send the flood