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1Cor 7:8-9 . . Now to the unmarried and the widows I say : It is good for
them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they
should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn.
The koiné Greek word for "burn" is puroo (poo-ro'-o) which means: to
kindle, to ignite, to glow, and/or to be inflamed. I seriously doubt Paul
meant to convey the thought that the believers who lacked self control at
Corinth were in grave danger of the flames of hell since he had already
assured them in 1Cor 6:9-11 that they were washed, sanctified, and justified
in the name of The Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
Paul was one of those kinds of men with a very low-powered libido. But not
everyone is like him; nor is everyone cut out to live alone.
Webster's defines "celibacy" as (1) the state of not being married, (2)
abstention from sexual intercourse, and (3) abstention by vow from
marriage. Celibacy then, isn't limited to zero sex, but also includes zero
marriage; even platonic unions.
Not long ago, a Catholic priest here in Oregon quit the priesthood after
serving more than 30 years in order to get married because he couldn't
stand being alone anymore. He wasn't especially looking to get naked with
somebody, he just wanted a companion; which is exactly how normal guys
are designed.
"Yhvh God said: It's not good for Adam to be solitary" (Gen 2:18)
The problem with a vow of celibacy is that although it may hinder a priest
from getting married, it does nothing to prevent him from pining for a
female companion. 1Cor 7:9 should suffice to silence the mouths of ascetics
who preach it's holy to abstain from every form of earthly pleasure; and also
the mouths of those who preach it's a sin to marry solely for sex.
NOTE: Typical wedding vows are unconditional, i.e. couples, as a rule, don't
promise to love each other in proportion to the amount of love they get from
the other. It would be educational for couples to review their vows now and
again to see just how conscientious they've been in complying with the
unconditional portions of their vows.
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1Cor 7:8-9 . . Now to the unmarried and the widows I say : It is good for
them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they
should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn.
The koiné Greek word for "burn" is puroo (poo-ro'-o) which means: to
kindle, to ignite, to glow, and/or to be inflamed. I seriously doubt Paul
meant to convey the thought that the believers who lacked self control at
Corinth were in grave danger of the flames of hell since he had already
assured them in 1Cor 6:9-11 that they were washed, sanctified, and justified
in the name of The Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
Paul was one of those kinds of men with a very low-powered libido. But not
everyone is like him; nor is everyone cut out to live alone.
Webster's defines "celibacy" as (1) the state of not being married, (2)
abstention from sexual intercourse, and (3) abstention by vow from
marriage. Celibacy then, isn't limited to zero sex, but also includes zero
marriage; even platonic unions.
Not long ago, a Catholic priest here in Oregon quit the priesthood after
serving more than 30 years in order to get married because he couldn't
stand being alone anymore. He wasn't especially looking to get naked with
somebody, he just wanted a companion; which is exactly how normal guys
are designed.
"Yhvh God said: It's not good for Adam to be solitary" (Gen 2:18)
The problem with a vow of celibacy is that although it may hinder a priest
from getting married, it does nothing to prevent him from pining for a
female companion. 1Cor 7:9 should suffice to silence the mouths of ascetics
who preach it's holy to abstain from every form of earthly pleasure; and also
the mouths of those who preach it's a sin to marry solely for sex.
NOTE: Typical wedding vows are unconditional, i.e. couples, as a rule, don't
promise to love each other in proportion to the amount of love they get from
the other. It would be educational for couples to review their vows now and
again to see just how conscientious they've been in complying with the
unconditional portions of their vows.
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