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Welcome ... you're too young for intercourse. 
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Hi! Lulu 😊 call me big sister 😊 our youngest (my lil sister) just turned 18 a few months ago...and just like what I told to my nieces and my 2 other younger sisters I told her to wait until she is married...but you know at the end of the day it is them who will gonna decide what to do and not to do ..but whether we are aware or not the choices we make have consequences...
God approves sex that is why God protects sex by marriage...therefore sex outside marriage is a sin.
I want to tell u a lil bit of my struggle in the past...i struggled with pornography for a very long period of time...i struggled so much to break free from it...but our Lord Jesus is a gracious God He helped me break free from it and still helping me when temptations arise...You need Him to help you because you can't do it on your own you can't break the chain by yourself you need GOD'S help Lulu Ask the Lord for strength 😊
Lulu, we all make mistakes no one is perfect but we should not use it to continue doing what God asks us not to do...It is not yet too late for you ask Him to help you...
And if you have a partner right now talk to him about it...that u want to wait until marriage to sleep with him...if your man loves you he will wait for you, he will respect your decision and will value you. If he doesn't love you and he is there only because of that thing he will quickly leave you if you will say you will wait.
God forgives our sins He is happy if He sees a person who returns to Him and will make a commitment to not continue sinning 😊 He is a forgiving God ❤
It would be a hard battle it would not be easy I've been there but you can win it with the Lord on your side 😊
God bless you Lulu and welcome to CC ❤
God approves sex that is why God protects sex by marriage...therefore sex outside marriage is a sin.
I want to tell u a lil bit of my struggle in the past...i struggled with pornography for a very long period of time...i struggled so much to break free from it...but our Lord Jesus is a gracious God He helped me break free from it and still helping me when temptations arise...You need Him to help you because you can't do it on your own you can't break the chain by yourself you need GOD'S help Lulu Ask the Lord for strength 😊
Lulu, we all make mistakes no one is perfect but we should not use it to continue doing what God asks us not to do...It is not yet too late for you ask Him to help you...
And if you have a partner right now talk to him about it...that u want to wait until marriage to sleep with him...if your man loves you he will wait for you, he will respect your decision and will value you. If he doesn't love you and he is there only because of that thing he will quickly leave you if you will say you will wait.
God forgives our sins He is happy if He sees a person who returns to Him and will make a commitment to not continue sinning 😊 He is a forgiving God ❤
It would be a hard battle it would not be easy I've been there but you can win it with the Lord on your side 😊
God bless you Lulu and welcome to CC ❤
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Correction there, Blue...she's 14 yrs...and culture has changed...public schools even says it's okay to experiment with sex at just the age of 12...so...it's not surprising...So, I understand why @Sweetmorningdew78 had to say that...
BTW, she may be 14...but some teens mature faster than others at that age...just saying. I'm not applauding her choices though, but there are teen pressures to give up virginity so early....
BTW, she may be 14...but some teens mature faster than others at that age...just saying. I'm not applauding her choices though, but there are teen pressures to give up virginity so early....
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Our Father in Heaven says that sex outside of marriage is sin, and what we should do is hold our thoughts captive. (lustful temptations)
Then we pray for deliverance from them, the only time sex is not sin is between one man and one woman joined in marriage.
1 Corinthians Chapter 6
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
1 Corinthians 7:2 - Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
(premarital sex is fornication)
Then we pray for deliverance from them, the only time sex is not sin is between one man and one woman joined in marriage.
1 Corinthians Chapter 6
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
1 Corinthians 7:2 - Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
(premarital sex is fornication)
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Ohhh...yayyy I apologize 😢
I never wanted to suggest it is ok for someone so young to have a partner @blue_ladybug and I agree with you...and Lulu when I first read your post I saw it as a confession but when I reread it again it can also see as more of a question about how God sees pre-marital sex. If I made any assumptions about it I am sorry I don't want to accuse you falsely 😢 I would love to try and answer any questions you have... Please feel free to ask... I apologize again Lulu...
May God bless you in this by showing you exactly what HE wants you to see.
I'll see you around Lulu ❤
I never wanted to suggest it is ok for someone so young to have a partner @blue_ladybug and I agree with you...and Lulu when I first read your post I saw it as a confession but when I reread it again it can also see as more of a question about how God sees pre-marital sex. If I made any assumptions about it I am sorry I don't want to accuse you falsely 😢 I would love to try and answer any questions you have... Please feel free to ask... I apologize again Lulu...
May God bless you in this by showing you exactly what HE wants you to see.
I'll see you around Lulu ❤
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