Hi
@kaylagrl, as far as verses that discuss apologetics go, this verse is always a good one to consider and remember, especially the qualifying phrase on the end
1 Peter 3
15 Sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.
Unfortunately, the word "tolerance" has often come to mean "acceptance" in this crazy, post-modern world of ours, but a Christian cannot "accept" as truth, that which we know to be false or a lie. What we can do is be prepared to explain why we believe what we do about God, the Bible and the faith, but we always need to do so in a way that respects the non-Christian personally, as well his/her beliefs (even while disagreeing with them), no matter how crazy their beliefs may be
I don't know about you, but I believed all kinds of crazy things prior to becoming a Christian, so we should never forget that non-Christians do not have the advantages that we do to understand things from God's "spiritual" POV, due to a quickened heart, the indwelling of the HS, and the
mind of Christ that we've been given .. e.g.
Ezekiel 36:26-27; John 3:3; 1 Corinthians 1:18, 2:12-16.
Actually, if you just maintain your witness as a Matt 7:12
(see this verse below in my signature line) Christian always should, none of this will be a problem for you (not that being persecuted for your faith isn't a problem in and of itself, but you know what I mean). No matter how badly we end up being treated by others, we are never to treat them in kind. IOW, we are to always choose to treat them in the same manner that we at least 'hope' they'd choose to treat us, with patience, kindness and respect (as
@Journeyman just mentioned above). We are called to
1. speak the truth to others, but always
2. in love as we do so .. e.g.
Ephesians 4:14-15.
~Deut
p.s. - if the person you are talking to begins to disrespect God and/or His word or you as a Christian, the Bible tells us stop talking to them (at least for the time being) ..
Matthew 7:6. God and His word are meant to be either believed or disbelieved, not sullied or demeaned or slandered (nor does God expect His servants, those in possession of, "
beautiful feet" ..
Romans 10:15, to simply be doormats for that kind of abuse either). Rather, you should pray and hope that they'll be more receptive (to you or to someone else the Lord sends) on another day.
1 Corinthians 13
6 Love .. does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth.