Christian but Gay?

thanks, but what about my gay problem

thanks, but what about my gay problem

Guys, I need help.

So basically I'm 15, and a committed Christian boy. Like I've been putting God in my daily life and follow His word all the time. There's only one problem - I think I'm gay.

So I've been more attracted to guys over girls, and this has been with me for well over a year now. I really want to date a guy because I feel and act like I'm a stereotypical girl and get crushes over boys. Like there's this really cute drummer at one of my music rehearsals and he acts mature and sensible all the time I really like him.

But, I know God. He doesn't want people to necessarily be same-sex attracted. I don't really know why, but because of this, I'm struggling to cope really badly, and it's very annoying. I'm also developing a tickle fetish for boys as well and I know it's not right. Any advice? Should I be gay?

This is not the place. Give it to God and If your Church is active find an elder, deacon, pastor, or an individual that you can see is active in the ministry and Talk to them in prayer.
Let GOD make Him and His way Jesus Christ the priority in your life. Fast, Turn off ALL the ways of this world and all it's distractions through prayer and working in the ministry.

lightbearer this is exactly the place and if u have nothing useful to add, it is easier for a young man to reach out here to strangers then to talk to those he knows and i hope he continues (and others like him) to do so.

No this is not the place he will get the help he needs. He may receive good advice but without actual trusting fellowship with Christians in a mentoring way in Christ through prayer and fasting from the ways of this world. Working in the ministry, giving our hearts to the Lord we will and our lost in our own ill and it will be our undoing.

Rather than make this a debate brother. Why not just let our young brother read what is written and let God's spirit move.

We must learn to trust one another in the real world not the internet.
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
(Jas 5:16 KJV)

Guys, I need help.

So basically I'm 15, and a committed Christian boy. Like I've been putting God in my daily life and follow His word all the time. There's only one problem - I think I'm gay.

So I've been more attracted to guys over girls, and this has been with me for well over a year now. I really want to date a guy because I feel and act like I'm a stereotypical girl and get crushes over boys. Like there's this really cute drummer at one of my music rehearsals and he acts mature and sensible all the time I really like him.

But, I know God. He doesn't want people to necessarily be same-sex attracted. I don't really know why, but because of this, I'm struggling to cope really badly, and it's very annoying. I'm also developing a tickle fetish for boys as well and I know it's not right. Any advice? Should I be gay?

Hello, I have had a similar problem before I’m a girl and have felt bisexual and been more attracted to females then males and still now this desire can still arise now and again, I’m only fourteen myself so it could just be a weird phase. However I know and I think you know that you cannot be Christian and then be gay, because you would be decieving yourself. Pray to God and ask him to take away this desire and over time he will, like he is doing for me. I know it can be hard but this is just one of many evil desires that we were born into because of sin, you have to fight it. Everyone on Earth, believer or non believer is fighting a battle against the devil, some give in but some chose and let Jesus stand by their side to help them fight. Let Jesus fight for you. Do not wonder and think ‘should I be gay?’ but think ‘I love Jesus so I can’t carry out being gay’ then let him fight the evil desire for you. It seems to me deep down you haven’t fully accepted Christ to live in you yet by saying ‘should I just be gay’. Let him in because he loves you more then you’ll ever know and he died to know you and now he wants to fight this spiritual war for you so let him because he wants you to have eternal life with him. Jesus can change you and he will make you into the person he wants to be if you fully accept him and are prepared to do his will and not your own and not follow your own desires. Have a blessed day😁

I'm 50 and remember a time when I was 14-15 that I kept having confrontations with thoughts that maybe I liked guys, but I know I didn't, so, I was amazed at how persistent they were. Then I began to put 2 and 2 together and realized that these thoughts seemed to be coming to me every time I had to attend a class that was being taught by a gay man. Eventually I found out other guys in my class were being assaulted by the same voices and we determined that these were demonic influences coming across. Now I understand why God commanded that men who were gay be dealt with immediately. They are spiritually infectious! Anyone struggling with these voices, you are not gay! You are being assaulted spiritually. I will pray for you, and thankfully you have the good sense God gave you to understand it is wrong. Resist the voices and they will flee. Memorize a Bible verse and every time that thought occurs, calmly recite it and think of it's meaning. Redirect your mind onto whatsoever is pure! This verse is a good one to memorize;

Php 4:8 KJV Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.