I think I’m gay

What about Bob?

Homosexuality is an abomination to God. It's a sin against Him, yourself and your own body..

My counsel is to stop talking to Bob and start talking to Barb.

No we definitely want HER talking to Bob, not Barb.. lol

IOW, she needs to avoid the females..

It pays to check the member's profiles to ascertain the gender of the member. Now, let me set this matter STRAIGHT. Absolutely, she should be talking to Bob. I wonder if the name of the OP is Barb?

Turns out that 'he' is actually a 'she' according to a trusted reliable souce. I made the same mistake responding to the OP. My bad.

Who is barb?

i find this quite nasty. I came on here for advice not to be mocked. I’m not a disgusting person and I don’t need to stay away from all females just as you don’t need to stay away from all males as to not act immorally.

Nobody really. I don't believe that it is a sin to be gay but being gay can lead to possible sins. You say that you think that you are gay but do you actually know that you are gay?

The truth is according to the Holy Bible it is wrong to be gay, but we each must choose our own path. No judging

yes I do. I have a crush on someone. I’ve never liked a boy in my life and im 17. I find the idea of a boyfriend repulsive and a girlfriend really nice. I’m having a hard time understanding how loving someone can be evil.

It's good to be cautious online. If someone doesn't give you a clear answer and sends you a video as you said, I think it's best not to watch it. For me, him not giving a clear answer and then sending a video with that title raises a red flag in my mind.

I think you should have people around you who would encourage you and build you up. Some people you can call and chat about what may be troubling you. Keep reading Scripture and praying and expressing your feelings to God. Tell him about your struggles and ask for help. Possibly also seek a counselor especially if you need to work through some pain, grief or fears. Hope that helps. ❤

I believe that understanding that will require a lot of the study of God's word as found in the bible before any positive change or understanding is possible. I am sorry that I made light of your situation but I will say a prayer for God to give you clarity of thought on how to proceed. Glad to have you onboard with us. Welcome to CC.

How old are you?

17

what is there to understand? I dont like guys. I don’t have the capacity to love a man the same way you don’t have the capacity to love your sex. How can I change that? Sorry if this comes across as rude it’s not intended that way I just can’t think of another way to express this

What during this chat with "Bob" brought you to wonder if you are Lesbian?

You have expressed yourself quite well and was not rude at all.

I'm not mocking you. You have a crush, that doesn't mean you're a lesbian. It simply means you have a crush on a girl. Also, not liking guys doesn't mean you're gay. It only means you don't like guys.

What do you find repulsive about a boyfriend? What do you find nice about a girlfriend? If you know the answer to these questions it might help get to the root as to why you are feeling same sex attraction.