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Blain

Blain

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Lynx said:
I have a habit of observing people so I can avoid the mistakes they make. I'll never have enough time in one life to make all the mistakes, so I learn from the mistakes of others.
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Oh dang now I know why cats are always staring lol But yeah I do the same thing actually
 
TabinRivCA

TabinRivCA

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Woodsrun said:
So how do you all do it? My state is fairly difficult to find fellow Christians. Not really able to date within the church as there really isn’t anyone there in my (we will say range for lack of a better word).
I’ve tried online sites, and most of them have awful or fake people. It’s like pulling teeth.
Obviously staying in the word and prayer, I know God will bring someone to me, but I it isn’t going to just drop through my roof while I’m sitting on my couch haha. And let’s be honest... this isn’t 1955, you don’t go to the grocery store to pick up the ladies.

Any advice?
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Don't be anxious but don't be shy. You arrived at the perfect time, you are needed over @seoulsearch 's posts, lol, jk. Happy to have you join here at CC and God bless you.
 
faith_in_him

faith_in_him

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Blain said:
Well you won't meet any fake people here and while it is not exactly common it is not unheard of to find love in this place. My good friend tourist and my adopted mom Jesuslives met here and got married I found love here as well but I am single now
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Well, I wouldn't go around saying there isn't any fake people here because they are technically everywhere. I do think there are very well intentioned people here, but there are still trolls and with this being a website, I would caution in giving certain personal information until you pray about it to get confirmation to do so.
 
Blain

Blain

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faith_in_him said:
Well, I wouldn't go around saying there isn't any fake people here because they are technically everywhere. I do think there are very well intentioned people here, but there are still trolls and with this being a website, I would caution in giving certain personal information until you pray about it to get confirmation to do so.
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Yes true I suppose I didn't think that one through and also as far as giving out personal info I would caution everyone that people have come here trying to steal peoples info before
 
faith_in_him

faith_in_him

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Blain said:
Yes true I suppose I didn't think that one through and also as far as giving out personal info I would caution everyone that people have come here trying to steal peoples info before
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After I got out of my relationship I went on a dating site for some attention (I know, it was a bad reason lol) and was talking to this guy who I later found out wanted some money. I caught it in time, but these people come on any website to get information from people and gain their trust
 
Blain

Blain

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faith_in_him said:
After I got out of my relationship I went on a dating site for some attention (I know, it was a bad reason lol) and was talking to this guy who I later found out wanted some money. I caught it in time, but these people come on any website to get information from people and gain their trust
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Several times I will have been randomly messaged by a new user she mentioned how I seemed like a kind and loving person and gave me this greatly detailed sob story and how if I gave her my info she would pay me back twice the amount. I may have brain damage but even I am not that niave also I love the cat on your avatar I love kitty cats
 
love_comes_softly

love_comes_softly

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Woodsrun said:
So how do you all do it? My state is fairly difficult to find fellow Christians. Not really able to date within the church as there really isn’t anyone there in my (we will say range for lack of a better word).
I’ve tried online sites, and most of them have awful or fake people. It’s like pulling teeth.
Obviously staying in the word and prayer, I know God will bring someone to me, but I it isn’t going to just drop through my roof while I’m sitting on my couch haha. And let’s be honest... this isn’t 1955, you don’t go to the grocery store to pick up the ladies.

Any advice?
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Welcome :) I pray that your visit here is blessed with great friendships and fellowship. There are some pretty spectacular people here. Have fun!
 
1christian1

1christian1

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Woodsrun said:
So how do you all do it? My state is fairly difficult to find fellow Christians. Not really able to date within the church as there really isn’t anyone there in my (we will say range for lack of a better word).
I’ve tried online sites, and most of them have awful or fake people. It’s like pulling teeth.
Obviously staying in the word and prayer, I know God will bring someone to me, but I it isn’t going to just drop through my roof while I’m sitting on my couch haha. And let’s be honest... this isn’t 1955, you don’t go to the grocery store to pick up the ladies.

Any advice?
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Actually, The meeting people at grocery stores was a 21st century thing. LOL. And everyone in this life needs food. I just would'nt start a conversation asking them if they were christian...
 
Lynx

Lynx

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So much for not making mistakes... I made one in this very thread! :ROFL:

That first post was not supposed to happen because it was not complete yet.

Oh well. At least I'm avoiding the mistakes everybody around me makes. I'm making my own mistakes. :rolleyes:
 
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She_is_Legendary

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Lynx said:
So much for not making mistakes... I made one in this very thread! :ROFL:

That first post was not supposed to happen because it was not complete yet.

Oh well. At least I'm avoiding the mistakes everybody around me makes. I'm making my own mistakes. :rolleyes:
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No one is perfect Lynx.... it’s ok. 🤓
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Yes but when I make a mistake and it proves I am less than perfect... well... it just totally WRECKS my whole world view! :eek:
 
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She_is_Legendary

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Lynx said:
Yes but when I make a mistake and it proves I am less than perfect... well... it just totally WRECKS my whole world view! :eek:
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Oh my.... someone’s being a drama queen 👸😂😂🙃😁

Just kidding! 😎
 
Mel85

Mel85

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Woodsrun said:
this isn’t 1955, you don’t go to the grocery store to pick up the ladies.
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That’s where you’ll find me, shawty 😎










In the desserts section of course!





welcome to CC! 😊
 
ArtsieSteph

ArtsieSteph

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Welcome my dude!! I’d suggest maybe praying that God would prepare you for whoever she is, and that He’d reveal her to you.
 
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NestForASparrow

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I am 33 as well. My main issue is going on dating websites and seeing them identify as Christian and then state that they would consider to have sex with a partner after 3-5 dates.

I don't believe I am a very strong Christian (in fact I am a very weak Christian), but on those dating sites, I have to state I am very Christian to point out that I am just a Christian.
 
1christian1

1christian1

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NestForASparrow said:
I am 33 as well. My main issue is going on dating websites and seeing them identify as Christian and then state that they would consider to have sex with a partner after 3-5 dates.

I don't believe I am a very strong Christian (in fact I am a very weak Christian), but on those dating sites, I have to state I am very Christian to point out that I am just a Christian.
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I'm 56 and I did'nt understand one word of what you were saying... LOL....
 
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