Preparing for the Tasks...

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CharliRenee

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A moment to reflect on God's goodness and how I see Him in ways I hadn't before.


Hmmm, let me try and keep this succinct.


Oh my that is hard.


Let me just say that I am no different than anyone else in the fact that in my life I have been on the receiving end of truly gentle and kind ppl, those who always make you feel at ease, completely at home. I have also known harshness that seemed to come abruptly and I had no understanding why. We all have known sweet acceptance and brutal rejection. It is all a part of the living experience. The more you put yourself out there, the more of all kinds of scenarios happens. Ok so this has been established.


The fact is, though, my lack of ability to handle the negative has landed me on me hiney bo on more than one occassion. God has been patiently dealing with this people pleasing, polly anna like person for a long time.


Others around me, have noticed I have a knack of sometimes bringing out the grumpy mcgrumpy in some peeps. I have had to hone in on my ability to spot those personalities and give them more space. After all, respecting people's choices, include their right to be left alone, lol.


Anyhoooo, you still with me?


I am getting to a point…


Now in my new job, I am in customer service, dealing with 100's of callers a week. Some call in ready to give me the what for, right from the start. I can see now why God has put certain people in my path now. It is as simple as this. God calls us to love everyone and my job calls me to be kind and respectful to everyone. Both are not always easy, but with Him, possible.


As a licensed Massage Therapist, most of the people I deal with come with warm fuzziness. They come to my practice to get a much needed massage. My other job is different; while some are also kind, many not so much.


I see so clearly now that God made me and has been preparing me for the tasks at hand. Looking back at everytime I spent yearning to understand the why with unkind people, I finally understand, it just doesn't matter. My job, as with everyone, day in and day out, is the same…


love people right where they are. Respect them, give them dignity, regardless, then move on and repeat…


Wow...deep breath of Yahweh


Sorry Jesus for being so recalcitrant and obtuse. Thanks for Your merciful patience. I am so grateful. Thank you for helping me to love more selflessly, more sincerely. I know more work is needed, but I'm learning You know exactly who You are dealing with. I'm also learning, praise be to You, who I am dealing with in You.

You are so beautiful my Lord
 
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CozHElivesIcanface2morrow

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I understand this sis 😊... I am a person that cries easily over a tiny little thing. A sad photo can get me emotional and cry . Seeing someone cries can contaminate my eyes too 😅 ...I really do have a very soft emotion that I wish I never got....negative words,cussing,yelling I just can't take those...

But praise God over the years after working with different people...I am still the same...😉😂 just a Lil older and a lil tougher than before 😂 I learned to appreciate myself more...and my interactions with different people taught me a lot of things ...that not everyone will going to like you,treat you the way you treated them and not everyone will appreciate your kindness...but that is OK just open your heart and don't forget to appreciate yourself...only you, can do that 😊


We have distinct personalities we are all different no one is like you and liked by everyone...but we all have one GOD...and HE teaches us to love one another 😊


Thank you for this blog sis God bless you always and congratulations to your new job 🤗
 

mar09

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Hi Renee,
Thanks for sharing that bit on God's goodness and beauty. Its the same here, sometimes it seems i get along better w/ many others than those close to me=). My hubby, for example. I know we know each other a lot all these yrs, and yet there is also the thought that he does not really know (and fully accept) me as i am.
But that is not and shd not be a very big problem. After i surrendered the matter to the Lord, i know He has been allowing that freedom to think and move more in sync w/ what He wants of me now, and not always what my spouse does. Not that we're fighting each other, for we're not. I can only see that when God allowed that little space bet. us, i was able to come closer to our Lord, and it's precious, time more w/ Him, reading His word, listening, playing to Him. And He shows i must strive more to please Him, not my family, not others. When our relationship w/ Him is wonderful, we do not have to worry much abt what others think or say.
 

CharliRenee

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I understand this sis 😊... I am a person that cries easily over a tiny little thing. A sad photo can get me emotional and cry . Seeing someone cries can contaminate my eyes too 😅 ...I really do have a very soft emotion that I wish I never got....negative words,cussing,yelling I just can't take those...

But praise God over the years after working with different people...I am still the same...😉😂 just a Lil older and a lil tougher than before 😂 I learned to appreciate myself more...and my interactions with different people taught me a lot of things ...that not everyone will going to like you,treat you the way you treated them and not everyone will appreciate your kindness...but that is OK just open your heart and don't forget to appreciate yourself...only you, can do that 😊


We have distinct personalities we are all different no one is like you and liked by everyone...but we all have one GOD...and HE teaches us to love one another 😊


Thank you for this blog sis God bless you always and congratulations to your new job 🤗
Wow, you really have me wanting to give you a hug. I appreciate your tender spirit. You nailed it, still the same...just older, with a tougher skin. I think He gives us that to guard the softened heart He gives us.

Love love love what you wrote here...we all have one God and He teaches us to love one another.

I am so looking forward to hugging you in heaven some day Sis. Thank you for your response. ❤
 

CharliRenee

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Mar, thank you so much. I value so much what you said about surrendering your relationships, the ones closest to you, to God. You are so right...He doesn't say please man, He says love them. In fact, He says we should not want to please them, but Him. Thanks for reminding me. Your personal relationship and time with God inspires mine. I will be lifting you and your hubby in prayer. ❤
 
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CozHElivesIcanface2morrow

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Wow, you really have me wanting to give you a hug. I appreciate your tender spirit. You nailed it, still the same...just older, with a tougher skin. I think He gives us that to guard the softened heart He gives us.

Love love love what you wrote here...we all have one God and He teaches us to love one another.

I am so looking forward to hugging you in heaven some day Sis. Thank you for your response. ❤
😊😊😊 thank you sis in the meantime hugss 🤗🤗🤗
 

Bingo

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A moment to reflect on God's goodness and how I see Him in ways I hadn't before.


Hmmm, let me try and keep this succinct.


Oh my that is hard.


Let me just say that I am no different than anyone else in the fact that in my life I have been on the receiving end of truly gentle and kind ppl, those who always make you feel at ease, completely at home. I have also known harshness that seemed to come abruptly and I had no understanding why. We all have known sweet acceptance and brutal rejection. It is all a part of the living experience. The more you put yourself out there, the more of all kinds of scenarios happens. Ok so this has been established.


The fact is, though, my lack of ability to handle the negative has landed me on me hiney bo on more than one occassion. God has been patiently dealing with this people pleasing, polly anna like person for a long time.


Others around me, have noticed I have a knack of sometimes bringing out the grumpy mcgrumpy in some peeps. I have had to hone in on my ability to spot those personalities and give them more space. After all, respecting people's choices, include their right to be left alone, lol.


Anyhoooo, you still with me?


I am getting to a point…


Now in my new job, I am in customer service, dealing with 100's of callers a week. Some call in ready to give me the what for, right from the start. I can see now why God has put certain people in my path now. It is as simple as this. God calls us to love everyone and my job calls me to be kind and respectful to everyone. Both are not always easy, but with Him, possible.


As a licensed Massage Therapist, most of the people I deal with come with warm fuzziness. They come to my practice to get a much needed massage. My other job is different; while some are also kind, many not so much.


I see so clearly now that God made me and has been preparing me for the tasks at hand. Looking back at everytime I spent yearning to understand the why with unkind people, I finally understand, it just doesn't matter. My job, as with everyone, day in and day out, is the same…


love people right where they are. Respect them, give them dignity, regardless, then move on and repeat…


Wow...deep breath of Yahweh


Sorry Jesus for being so recalcitrant and obtuse. Thanks for Your merciful patience. I am so grateful. Thank you for helping me to love more selflessly, more sincerely. I know more work is needed, but I'm learning You know exactly who You are dealing with. I'm also learning, praise be to You, who I am dealing with in You.

You are so beautiful my Lord

"Thank you for sharing.
And, of great importance is our learning, and I have found this requires a steadfast commitment,
with perseverance, each day. And, by doing so, I have learned revelations come about, that on my
own, would never before have been thought about. Just through our daily quiet time, we learn of
the power of the Holy Spirit, Thank God. And I feel you too, have a special time with the Divine Spirit.
God love you, and thank you for being you...by the grace of God."
'Praise God'


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CharliRenee

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"Thank you for sharing.
And, of great importance is our learning, and I have found this requires a steadfast commitment,
with perseverance, each day. And, by doing so, I have learned revelations come about, that on my
own, would never before have been thought about. Just through our daily quiet time, we learn of
the power of the Holy Spirit, Thank God. And I feel you too, have a special time with the Divine Spirit.
God love you, and thank you for being you...by the grace of God."
'Praise God'


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Thank you, that was well said...you know that you are so right. Devoted time with Him is everything. Sometimes, ill zip through a devotional just to check off the task, losing the point all together. He has been beckoning my soul as He does all of us. So now....I think that I will go give Him some undivided attention. Truly, I thank you so much for your wisdom. God Bless and thank you for being you.