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there is nothing wrong with communicating.
I get the feeling people are thinking its 'chasing' if someone asks first.
No its only chasing if someone asks and then asks again and keeps asking. The person keeps saying no not interested or another time but the 'chaser' keeps persisting. Like a dog with a bone.
I think some women might find that flattering but some (me included) just find it annoying. what part of no dont you understand. some will go on a date to stop being pestered, then decide well I didnt enjoy that date so I wont go on another one. And thats ok you gave them a chance.
I dont know how men feel about this, guys, what do you think.
I get the feeling people are thinking its 'chasing' if someone asks first.
No its only chasing if someone asks and then asks again and keeps asking. The person keeps saying no not interested or another time but the 'chaser' keeps persisting. Like a dog with a bone.
I think some women might find that flattering but some (me included) just find it annoying. what part of no dont you understand. some will go on a date to stop being pestered, then decide well I didnt enjoy that date so I wont go on another one. And thats ok you gave them a chance.
I dont know how men feel about this, guys, what do you think.
I remember being in a class and one guy really liked this girl and kept trying to ask her out but the girl wasnt interested, and she kept saying no but he wouldnt take no for an answer. the other girls in the class all sat round her to protect her from this guy who would try to sit next to her in class.
come graduation the guy didnt even show up I think he was too humilated cos she wouldnt go out with him.
why do guys think its ok to keep asking when the girl has said no? why do some ask even when they are going out with another girl and she is is even in the same room (this happened to me too!)
my preference is the girl ought to do the asking and then the guy can actually arrange the date. that way, both have some input into the date.
come graduation the guy didnt even show up I think he was too humilated cos she wouldnt go out with him.
why do guys think its ok to keep asking when the girl has said no? why do some ask even when they are going out with another girl and she is is even in the same room (this happened to me too!)
my preference is the girl ought to do the asking and then the guy can actually arrange the date. that way, both have some input into the date.
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When I was in the 7th grade I was at the local skating rink and I worked up the nerve to ask a very pretty blonde hair blue eyed girl to skate with me. She frowned at me and said "Are you Crazy!?" and sped off on her skates. I just wanted to go home after that. I think I have PTSD. 
So yes it would be a relief to be asked instead of having to build up all that self confidence and counsel yourself not to be dissapointed before you even ask. This is hypothetical of course, since I am not interested in dating and would say no anyway.
So yes it would be a relief to be asked instead of having to build up all that self confidence and counsel yourself not to be dissapointed before you even ask. This is hypothetical of course, since I am not interested in dating and would say no anyway.-
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