Soulmate kind of thing

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EternalSoul

EternalSoul

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hi! I fully entered my soul within the heavenly dimension and my soul travelled through this dimension made of light where i saw my future wife and saw God standing with angels and a long rod/staff in his hand and everything was made out of pure bright light even themselves, what i wonder now as i have not met this girl is well.. Im 28 years old and what do YOU think is important for me to think about exept God and his teachings before i meet this girl like how should i prepare? Please dont be jelous of me if you seek you will find
 
Lynx

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Only one thing is important: When you meet her, make sure you have a life to share with her.

Don't put your life on hold until you meet her. Don't depend on her to make your life complete. Be making your life and living it now.

(Also you might want to do all those things that she would probably totally freak out about now, while you're single and she's not there to freak out about them. Stuff like sky diving (dangerous,) making pickled eggs (stinks up the whole house,) spending the whole day binge-watching a favorite show (wasteful,) stuff like that. Go ahead and get it out of your system now.)
 
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If God has someone in mind he will make it happen carry on w life focus on your relationship w Him
 
UCA4J

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EternalSoul said:
hi! I fully entered my soul within the heavenly dimension and my soul travelled through this dimension made of light where i saw my future wife and saw God standing with angels and a long rod/staff in his hand and everything was made out of pure bright light even themselves, what i wonder now as i have not met this girl is well.. Im 28 years old and what do YOU think is important for me to think about exept God and his teachings before i meet this girl like how should i prepare? Please dont be jelous of me if you seek you will find
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prepare ?
Get your head out of the ☁️ ?
 
Lanolin

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I dunno I cant tell you what to think surely you can think for yourself....?! As you say you are 28 years old. Im pretty sure thats an adult age past 18, so you dont really need your parents permission but they might offer to pay for a wedding. Its not really fair to get in debt and then not being able to afford a home cos weddings are expensive. That is if you are going to marry.

Do you have a home prepared/built or you just going to be renting/homeless? wives usually like to reside in a permanent home somewhere....count the cost before you do.
 
Dino246

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Kelker said:
If God has someone in mind he will make it happen carry on w life focus on your relationship w Him
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Hey Kelker... glad to see you joined the light side of CC. The dark side may have cookies, but we have all kinds of comestibles. :)
 
Dino246

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EternalSoul said:
hi! I fully entered my soul within the heavenly dimension and my soul travelled through this dimension made of light where i saw my future wife and saw God standing with angels and a long rod/staff in his hand and everything was made out of pure bright light even themselves, what i wonder now as i have not met this girl is well.. Im 28 years old and what do YOU think is important for me to think about exept God and his teachings before i meet this girl like how should i prepare? Please dont be jelous of me if you seek you will find
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Hi eternalsoul... I think you should start preparing by turning off the underline function. ;)
 
kinda

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EternalSoul said:
hi! I fully entered my soul within the heavenly dimension and my soul travelled through this dimension made of light where i saw my future wife and saw God standing with angels and a long rod/staff in his hand and everything was made out of pure bright light even themselves, what i wonder now as i have not met this girl is well.. Im 28 years old and what do YOU think is important for me to think about exept God and his teachings before i meet this girl like how should i prepare? Please dont be jelous of me if you seek you will find
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Make sure you have lots of money for Eve and her children, or Eve might have second thoughts, and find someone else to help pay for her and her children.
 
Kireina

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Make sure you have lots of money for Eve and her children, or Eve might have second thoughts, and find someone else to help pay for her and her children.
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Can I ask why you specifically mentioned "Eves with kids"?

Lol not all Eves wanted your money...some Eves can work and earn enough to take care of herself and her kids and even pay for his man 😊 and not all single parent Eves,placed their lives in someone else's hands...

Your comment quite saddens me because I know a lot of single parents, women especially (than men)working so hard to provide for their kids...

One example is my younger sister she is working to support her kid ...her ex abandoned his child since my nephew was around 1 year old...It broke my heart when she told me, don't worry older sister you can still find someone you are single unlike me It is hard already... nobody wants a single mom...😔 my other encounter(one of many) was from a stranger she told me the same...but these women are working women, independent women who can take care of themselves as well as their kids...


If the man above finds a single mother with 10 kids God bless him.... And I'll salute him for accepting a woman with kids...because seldom...you can find a man who will take care someone else's kids like his own...😊
 
kinda

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Kireina said:
Can I ask why you specifically mentioned "Eves with kids"?

Lol not all Eves wanted your money...some Eves can work and earn enough to take care of herself and her kids and even pay for his man 😊 and not all single parent Eves,placed their lives in someone else's hands...

Your comment quite saddens me because I know a lot of single parents, women especially (than men)working so hard to provide for their kids...

One example is my younger sister she is working to support her kid ...her ex abandoned his child since my nephew was around 1 year old...It broke my heart when she told me, don't worry older sister you can still find someone you are single unlike me It is hard already... nobody wants a single mom...😔 my other encounter(one of many) was from a stranger she told me the same...but these women are working women, independent women who can take care of themselves as well as their kids...


If the man above finds a single mother with 10 kids God bless him.... And I'll salute him for accepting a woman with kids...because seldom...you can find a man who will take care someone else's kids like his own...😊
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Eve was in the Bible and she had kids with Adam. It was a Bible reference. It certainly costed Adam the admission to paradise for having a wife and kids.

It was more of a tongue in cheek response to the reality of what I believe is generally true, not really true for all situations. Hopefully, the point was figured out by most. I have been saying pretty much the same thing for awhile, no offense to anyone, more like my view of the reality I see and experienced.

If my post offended you, it wasn't my intent. I don't want to get married, but hope things are good for you in the dating/marriage world.

I will go walk away in defeat to my bat cave and hang out with the rats now....lol

 
Subhumanoidal

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EternalSoul said:
hi! I fully entered my soul within the heavenly dimension and my soul travelled through this dimension made of light where i saw my future wife and saw God standing with angels and a long rod/staff in his hand and everything was made out of pure bright light even themselves, what i wonder now as i have not met this girl is well.. Im 28 years old and what do YOU think is important for me to think about exept God and his teachings before i meet this girl like how should i prepare? Please dont be jelous of me if you seek you will find
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Yes. The teaching of soul mates is not biblical. That's a good place to start.

God gave you a vision of heaven just to tell you about a 'soul mate'? Sounds legit 🤥

That you presume people will be jealous of you speaks even more to your mental state.

And finishing it off with telling people they will find someone puts the final nail in the coffin of your sanity.

Not to mention your desperate need to get attention by using the difficult to read all underlines.
 
kinda

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O.k., so not going into any details. I ran into this lady and we hit it off, it felt really uncomfortable, because it was to easy to get a long, and I'm not looking for anyone. I did my best to run away, but there are chances we are gonna meet in the future, it could get awkward.

Somebody has to stay single, might as well be me.
 
Kireina

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O.k., so not going into any details. I ran into this lady and we hit it off, it felt really uncomfortable, because it was to easy to get a long, and I'm not looking for anyone. I did my best to run away, but there are chances we are gonna meet in the future, it could get awkward.

Somebody has to stay single, might as well be me.
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Lol if we have no plan to get married If we don't see a future with anyone(if we are really sure that that is what we want) I think we should not waste someone's time...wasting someone's time is stealing 😁😅 so my advice is run as fast as you can 🏃🏼 hide, or tell her that you are not interested/never interested in marriage...if she is so determined to get you 😂
 
Lynx

Lynx

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kinda said:
O.k., so not going into any details. I ran into this lady and we hit it off, it felt really uncomfortable, because it was to easy to get a long, and I'm not looking for anyone. I did my best to run away, but there are chances we are gonna meet in the future, it could get awkward.

Somebody has to stay single, might as well be me.
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Keep up the good work dude. Fight the good fight! YEAH! :giggle:
 
Lanolin

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you ran into this lady and hit it off? what were you playing tennis in go karts or something?

I just have this image. If you dont want to share thats ok.
 
kinda

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Kireina said:
Lol if we have no plan to get married If we don't see a future with anyone(if we are really sure that that is what we want) I think we should not waste someone's time...wasting someone's time is stealing 😁😅 so my advice is run as fast as you can 🏃🏼 hide, or tell her that you are not interested/never interested in marriage...if she is so determined to get you 😂
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Eye of the tiger

 
someguyfrommars

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Lol if we have no plan to get married If we don't see a future with anyone(if we are really sure that that is what we want) I think we should not waste someone's time...wasting someone's time is stealing 😁😅 so my advice is run as fast as you can 🏃🏼 hide, or tell her that you are not interested/never interested in marriage...if she is so determined to get you 😂
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In my opinion there is a significant measure of truth to this statement. Referencing I Corinthians 7:1 - 'it is good for a man not to marry'

Perhaps the message conveyed is that there are people who can accomplish things single they might not be otherwise if married? That is why I feel dating is an understated responsibility. For example, every marriage starts with a first date, or at the very least by going on a date with someone you are saying to yourself you are open to the possibility of forming a long term relationship with the other person.

Hence, in my opinion perhaps it is best not to date of you are not interested in marriage (or you do not feel your assignment and calling in life is marriage).
 
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