can anyone explain to me where do you go on a guilt trip and why do people do them.
Is it only mothers that do them, i.e I work and slave for you and you dont even lift a finger!
And how do you handle this abuse, do you then go ok thanks for pointing that out, is it my turn to work and slave for you while you sit back and relax.
Or do you say, I had no idea you were doing all that for me. I just thought you liked being a martyr.
How can you ever be grateful if you are told you SHOULD be grateful?
Is it a good thing to say to someone, you should be thanking me, and then hang around waiting for the tip?
Is it only mothers that do them, i.e I work and slave for you and you dont even lift a finger!
And how do you handle this abuse, do you then go ok thanks for pointing that out, is it my turn to work and slave for you while you sit back and relax.
Or do you say, I had no idea you were doing all that for me. I just thought you liked being a martyr.
How can you ever be grateful if you are told you SHOULD be grateful?
Is it a good thing to say to someone, you should be thanking me, and then hang around waiting for the tip?