Have your life experiences made you a cold person / afraid to love?

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Mar 23, 2022
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My first and last husband, is why I don't want to date or get serious with anybody, when he left he took my heart and soul, it was pure h __ __! I can say we are friends now, but with not benefits, so he really don't even want to be friends with me. Everyone is so gentle with me, and that because I been though so much, and I not going to risk it again. People say they other fish in the sea, well, I am not over this fish yet, even though it been a few years. He torn my ever being out of me.
 

Lanolin

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well I think everyone should be born with TWO hearts so they could just give one away, though maybe with this hearts stealing business going on a lot of people are born or living without one. huh
 

2Cor41718

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With out question we live in a fallen world. Yes our past experiences can leave a mark of brokenness on us for many years to come.
I spent years In misery and confusion, both as a non Christian and a Christian. Unfortunately many settle for a broken past and give up on life. It doesn’t have to be that way, growth and change does not come fast or easy. (It usually takes years) A life time commitment to believe there is more out there and God has a purpose and plan for your life are required. Developing my relationship with God (daily) working my own insecurities and learning how to develop safe friendships are key to having a fulfilling life. Although we need to realize we need to be proactive, intentional, and trust the Process. God never promises life would be easy although a blessed life is possible.
 

Awazoona

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Mar 23, 2022
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My life experience is very dull, I haven't been in love yet, and I haven't been hurt in love,
But I believe in true love, the way to find love is full of hope,
I have seen true love. I attended my friend's wedding last year. At the wedding, they said that they recognized each other as unique, affectionate and sincere. I was very impressed that they also chose a Darryring wedding ring that can only customize a ring for the only love in lifetime to increase trust each other, really happy for them,
But I can't guarantee that if I'm hurt, I can still believe in love and hope that love can guide me to a better future.