Unrealistic Expectations

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jennymae

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G00WZ said:
A mans leading default is in how he thinks/logic, women by default tend to lead by feel/emotion... If you don't believe me start a conversation with a man with a topic like "how do you feel about the color green". He's going to give you a short 5 second logical base answer while a woman might respond with a whole a childhood experience and then go on to talk about how she feels about 30 other types of green that she saw on a color pannel in a Bed Bath and Beyond.

I wouldn't say it's fear, it's just not how typical men are wired.
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Sounds like you got a good grip about feminine sides.😁
 
G00WZ

G00WZ

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jennymae said:
Sounds like you got a good grip about feminine sides.😁
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Lol i understand enough to get around and socialize but i still don't understand what's so great about chocolate though.
 
Lynx

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G00WZ said:
Lol i understand enough to get around and socialize but i still don't understand what's so great about chocolate though.
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I know you didn't just go there. Chocolate is life. Chocolate is all. And it's definitely NOT just for women.

In fact, in Japan there's a stereotype that dark chocolate is for men and milk chocolate is for women. Please don't ask me why. But dark-chocolate-dipped pocky sticks are sold as "men's pocky."
 
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Ruby123

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Lynx said:
I know you didn't just go there. Chocolate is life. Chocolate is all. And it's definitely NOT just for women.

In fact, in Japan there's a stereotype that dark chocolate is for men and milk chocolate is for women. Please don't ask me why. But dark-chocolate-dipped pocky sticks are sold as "men's pocky."
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What on earth is a pocky stick lol?

Chocolate isn't everything but is nice esp combined with coconut :love::love:
 
Lanolin

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I thought our brains were plastic and gooey not 'hard wired' like metal.
hmm

And also, brains are made up of TWO hemispheres right? A left and a right brain. Why do some people think that men only use one half and women the other?

I think thats unrealistic. And also not what brain scans actually show.
 
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Gojira

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jennymae said:
Why’s men so ‘fraid of their feminine side? A feminine side could just mean that men would simply say “I understand how you feel.” Even though they don’t.😀
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Oh so you're saying that getting in touch with our feminine sides means leaning to lie?
 
Lynx

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Gojira said:
Oh so you're saying that getting in touch with our feminine sides means leaning to lie?
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Yeah... That's the impression I got. :p
 
Lynx

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Lanolin said:
And also, brains are made up of TWO hemispheres right? A left and a right brain. Why do some people think that men only use one half and women the other?
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"So you say that I'm too right-brained
I've got half a mind to disagree"

- Jamie Grace
 
Robertt

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well i not sure if i ever put unreasonable expectaions on a girl. i just want to be loved for who i am
 
G00WZ

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Lynx said:
I know you didn't just go there. Chocolate is life. Chocolate is all. And it's definitely NOT just for women.

In fact, in Japan there's a stereotype that dark chocolate is for men and milk chocolate is for women. Please don't ask me why. But dark-chocolate-dipped pocky sticks are sold as "men's pocky."
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I can't stand chocolate by itself its just too plain for me like vanilla. It's like if im being served something like brownies i want sprikles, icing, caramel and some candy glitter sparkles on it lol.
 
Lanolin

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This sounds like a tv show 'are you being served'

no really

when you are a servant, I guess the customers/boss or whoever really expect you to go out of your way, but maybe they dont realise how much it costs to serve someone.

especially when most people can do things for themselves, though I supoose there is no fun in being self serving.

I will microwave my own meal and bake my own cake thank you very much lol
 
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