Matthew 22:1 And Jesus answered and spake unto them again by parables, and said,
Matthew 22:2 The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,
Matthew 22:3 And sent forth his servants to call them that were bidden to the wedding: and they would not come.
Matthew 22:4 Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage.
Matthew 22:5 But they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise:
Matthew 22:6 And the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them.
Matthew 22:7 But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city.
Matthew 22:8 Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.
Matthew 22:9 Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage.
Matthew 22:10 So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
Matthew 22:11 And when the king came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment:
Matthew 22:12 And he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless.
Matthew 22:13 Then said the king to the servants, Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into outer darkness, there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Matthew 22:14 For many are called, but few are chosen.
The chosen
GOD has those who are born to do HIS WILL. They do not have free choice. He knew them before, they have been pre ordained. They are pre saved.
IN MY WORDS FOR THE EFFECT and not for truth
They are those such as Moses, who said Not me, I stutter.
Or Jonah who said Nope and ended up in a great fishes belly 3 days.
Jeremaih who said, I'm too young.
THEY didn't have a choice. Being saved already, GOD could use them however He saw fit.
I could be wrong but it seems to me most of those who are chosen have a pretty tough to a very tough to a killed doing service life. So to be chosen SOUNDS GOOD but it seems to come with lots of trials and tribulations and beatings and torture.
The called - US, WE, Christians
We hear the words of God that the chosen scribed for God. Those words tell the events of what other chosen ones did. God used the chosen to get the calling done.
Are there still chosen today? I don't know. I personally believe the next 'chosen' the world will know of are the two witnesses. I
But who knows, maybe once we are called and we have attained, we become 'chosen' to call others as servants of God. Either way it's all good. If I were to guess I would say if someone were 'chosen' today, they would spend ALL of their time in the service of God and nothing but the service of God.
God is not a respecter of persons so it doesn't matter one way or the other. God loves us and we love God. Chosen or called.
When Scripture says God is no respector of persons it's meaning is that He doesn't only bestow His favor upon something that person has done (ie what the world would call worthy). You can be Jew or of Gentile decent, rich or poor, smart or of lesser intelligence, ugly or beautiful etc etc, so on and so forth, and still be chosen by God.
The Scripture you mentioned - allow me to illustrate something for you:
Matthew 22:1 And Jesus answered and spake unto them again by parables, and said,
Matthew 22:2 The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,
[certain King is God, Israel is the Bride, Christ is the Son]
Matthew 22:3 And sent forth
his servants to call them that were bidden to the wedding: and they would not come. [Israel/Jews are those bidden - His servants are the Prophets]
Matthew 22:4 Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage.
Matthew 22:5 But they made light of it, and went their ways, one to his farm, another to his merchandise:
Matthew 22:6 And the remnant took his servants, and entreated them spitefully, and slew them. [The killing of the Prophets, the disciples and the apostles]
Matthew 22:7 But when the king heard thereof, he was wroth: and he sent forth his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city. [Destruction of Jerusalem, 7 years war in 70AD]
Matthew 22:8 Then saith he to his servants, The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy.
Matthew 22:9 Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage. [The Gospel going forth now to the Gentiles]
Matthew 22:10 So those servant's went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
Matthew 22:11 And when the king came
in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment:
Matthew 22:12 And he saith unto him, Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless.
Matthew 22:13 Then said the king
to the servants, Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into outer darkness, there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Matthew 22:14 For many are called
but few are chosen.
The King freely handed out nice garments for the guest's to wear, the garment we put on is Christ. The perfect covering for our sin that God/the King provides. We can choose not to put on Christ - and be Christian
in name only, or we can put on Christ as a free gift...
For many are called [there is a general calling to all mankind], but few are chosen [the chosen without fail will put on the garment - not everyone will be saved]
This isn't an argument against predestination - Jesus will loose none out of His Hand that the Father gave Him, not one. But there are others who will be living as Christian in name only (the wheat and the chaff growing together), and they might think themselves truly saved but they missed the point and will be cast into hell, in the end.
This means the general calling which we are required to do (the Gospel going to every tribe, nation and tongue) is
not the effectual calling. The only effectual calling comes via the Grace of God alone, for His Glory.