Who Would of Thought

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Lanolin

Lanolin

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I have joined the Farmers club but I never seem to get any rewards for spending there. I mean it all gets put on my card but then nothing ever happens with the points. I may have to ask them what is the point do I get any discounts or what?
 
Willow

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Gojira said:
You gonna call him?
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I am not sure we would be a match. He was wearing a mask and then while talking to me took it down.Already seeing a conflict with all of that. Just saying unequally yoked is a biggie,lol!
 
Lanolin

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I think a lot of guys just ask every girl and believe that if they ask enough at least one will bite.

I think women have to get over the delusion that they are the only one who ever gets asked by a guy.
 
Willow

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Lanolin said:
I think a lot of guys just ask every girl and believe that if they ask enough at least one will bite.

I think women have to get over the delusion that they are the only one who ever gets asked by a guy.
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Well personally really have been the first one to make the move more than once. Sadly most men are afraid to ask out women I have found out by them telling me.It has been hard for me to find men my age past years because they thought I was younger. But these days unsure it matters the age. Personally was only looking to get my water . I have had more than a few flirt with me . But not usually want my number or my sons age. I actually found him by accident on fb last night. He was my friends friends boyfriend ;) . I have found more than a few that try to get my attention are actually in a relationship . So am ok with people flirting but there is no love connection atm.
 
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Willow said:
I am not sure we would be a match. He was wearing a mask and then while talking to me took it down.Already seeing a conflict with all of that. Just saying unequally yoked is a biggie,lol!
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Ooooo the mask. Turn-off.

Yes... equal-yoking is paramount, and it's not just about a common spirituality.
 
Lanolin

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dont know whats hard about it (asking women out) or even if you never do
you just swapping phone numbers
ICE...in case of emergency

Doesnt mean necesarily you going to call them EVERYDAY.
 
Lanolin

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the one I ghosted was the annoying workmate who got my mobile number from work though. He stopped now but then . started emailing my work email which I had to block. Just inappropriate.

sometimes you cant really get rid of persistent callers but at least he wasnt turning up at my doorstep.

I think men just dont know how to send flowers anymore. Thats what you do if you interested in a lady duh. Dont annoy them by calling them on the phone.
 
Lanolin

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dont send them weird stuff like fishnet stockings or hankies either. ugh. lol.

Fresh produce from your garden...sure. Though everyone does that when they have too much, flowers are more romantic and show that you do think that someone is special. Write a note on a card with it so that the message is clear.
 
Mel85

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Lanolin said:
The boy next door tried to get my number but im like why? you just live right next door, if you want to talk to me then just stand near the fence.
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I swear - you’re so cut-throat sometimes lol.
 
Mel85

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Willow said:
Today started out frustrating ,going through a curvy road trial. Bad news came early and found out I was being lied too by employer. When confronted he got rude and nasty. But I was happy I stood up for myself. God does not want door mats. Instead of moping around house I went to Walmarts for essentials.
I have to tell you that walmarts is hiding the fact they are aka a singles club ;) . While trying to get my water a young man about 35 approached me and asked if I was single. I go yes and smiled. Figured he maybe looking for a date for his dad or something. Then wanted my phone number for himself,lol ! Mind you I am 53 and have a son almost his age. I go I don't even know you I really do not think I can give my number out. He looked like I had just kicked a puppy and off he went. An older man standing there was listening. I go I could never date someone my son's age. He goes "I am old and single!" I stood there with my mouth opened not knowing how to take any of this. He went on and on and told me he thought I was beautiful. But I never gave my number out, he gave me his,lol!
Thinking maybe cheaper then dating sites etc. just saying ;)
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Gone are the days this kind of thing use to happen - actually few months ago, I was catching my bus and a guy came up to me and asked what my name was, then asked for my number. I was a bit shocked because I never thought that that kind of thing still happens since most singles use online dating. I think it’s also a generational thing as he was like 39 or something. My younger days when a guy was interested, he would either ask face to face or write notes.
 
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Mel85 said:
Gone are the days this kind of thing use to happen - actually few months ago, I was catching my bus and a guy came up to me and asked what my name was, then asked for my number. I was a bit shocked because I never thought that that kind of thing still happens since most singles use online dating. I think it’s also a generational thing as he was like 39 or something. My younger days when a guy was interested, he would either ask face to face or write notes.
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I often wonder as I get older if men are attracted to women older than 50. Years back not many men approached me. In school really was a wallflower . More men and women should ask people out . My issue I am always afraid they are married. People used to wear wedding bands now it is a guess.
 
Willow

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Lanolin said:
we dont have walmart, we have K mart
never been approached by shoppers at Kmart for my number
I dont like ppl calling me all the time..the last one tried to do that got ghosted.

The boy next door tried to get my number but im like why? you just live right next door, if you want to talk to me then just stand near the fence.
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Yeah at least ask you for coffee etc. That does seem silly. But he maybe kind of shy.
 
Willow

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Lynx said:
Well... Do you have anything planned for this Saturday night? =^.^=
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Atm I have a cracked molar . I am blessed in one aspect it is on a molar that had a root canal done. But has caused pain to my gums moving around. I am pretty sure there is an infection. I have found eating yogurt and taking allergy medication great in reducing swelling . This will be the first tooth I have ever had pulled. It is loose so claiming it comes out without an issue,amen.
 
Lanolin

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Willow said:
Yeah at least ask you for coffee etc. That does seem silly. But he maybe kind of shy.
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he wouldnt have to ask me for coffee
Im not a coffee drinker but can easily just make up a cup of tea and offer it to me.

actually the whole thing of asking seems a bit silly. Why cant men just say heres MY number call me if you need me. Why should they even have to ask for yours?
 
Willow

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Lanolin said:
he wouldnt have to ask me for coffee
Im not a coffee drinker but can easily just make up a cup of tea and offer it to me.

actually the whole thing of asking seems a bit silly. Why cant men just say heres MY number call me if you need me. Why should they even have to ask for yours?
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That is my thought. If a person is interested they will call. Yeah I have had a few stalkers do not give my number out much.
 
Lanolin

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Just give them the office number of the church (doesnt even have to be your church) and the receptionist can handle it surely? Or pizza hut. Say it would be appreciated if they order you a pizza and delivered.
 
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