Hello
@JohnB, in His providence, I believe that God ordains whatsoever comes to pass in this world (by this I mean that He either,
1. causes something to happen, or
2. stops it from happening, or
3. ~allows~ what He already knows will happen to freely take place (w/o interference/intervention from Him).
Neither God's foreknowledge and ordination of future events, nor His choice to allow us to make free will choices and to act on them, means that He "takes responsibility" for them. Rather, we are responsible for the things that we freely choose to do (or in the case of an unintentional car accident, or manslaughter in the case of v13, what we accidentally do at times).
Another example of this involves our choice to sin. God knows in advance that we are going to do so, and He could stop us each and every time if He wanted to, but if He did so, our wills would not be free. So, He ~allows~ us to sin, even though He doesn't want us to do so.
That said, His allowing us to sin does not mean that He is responsible for the sinful choices that we make (even though He could have stopped us from making them).
God bless you!!
~Deuteronomy
p.s. - God actively and powerfully works in each of our lives to help us avoid falling for the temptations that we face throughout the day, so that our temptations do not have to result in us falling for them and sinning. But if we choose to sin in spite of all of the help that we receive from Him, we do so freely, of our own accord, and we are the ones who are and who will be help culpable for our sins, not God.
1 Corinthians 10
13 No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.
Ephesians 6
10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might.
11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.
12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
13 Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm.
14 Stand firm therefore, HAVING GIRDED YOUR LOINS WITH TRUTH, and HAVING PUT ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS,
15 and having shod YOUR FEET WITH THE PREPARATION OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE;
16 in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
17 And take THE HELMET OF SALVATION, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.