Hi, Raggedcloth.
I'm definitely not a man-pleaser, so here are my thoughts on the matter.
First of all, I am DEFINITELY NOT a fan of Joyce Meyer in any way, shape, or form. I determined her to be a false teacher a long time ago, and that determination has never changed.
That said, it doesn't mean that there isn't any truth to what she said (according to your testimony here) about Abraham's obedience.
James said (even though people don't like to hear it):
James 2
14What
doth it profit, my brethren, though a man say he hath faith, and have not works? can faith save him?
15If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food,
16And one of you say unto them, Depart in peace, be
ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what
doth it profit?
17Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.
18Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works.
19Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble.
20But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead?
21Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he had offered Isaac his son upon the altar? 22Seest thou how faith wrought with his works, and by works was faith made perfect? 23And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God. 24Ye see then how that by works a man is justified, and not by faith only. 25Likewise also was not Rahab the harlot justified by works, when she had received the messengers, and had sent
them out another way?
26For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.
"The scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness" (Genesis 15:6) "WHEN he", Abraham, "had offered Isaac his son upon the altar" or WHEN he sought to do so in OBEDIENCE to what God had commanded him to do. God had previously told Abraham that "in Isaac shall thy seed be called" (Genesis 21:12) or that Jesus, who is Abraham's seed, would come through the descendancy or lineage of Isaac. God tested Abraham's faith in order to see whether or not Abraham truly believed him or had faith in what he had told him, and it wasn't until Abraham had corresponding works or actions to back up what he professed to believe in that this scripture pertaining to Abraham's righteousness by faith was fulfilled. This is a biblical truth whether anybody likes it or not. Faith without works or corresponding actions that align themselves with what we profess to believe is as DEAD as the body without the spirit is.
Let's bring this to our current day and age.
Here's a quick litmus test for all of us.
Who here believes the following?
2 Peter 3
10But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up.
11Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, 12Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? 13Nevertheless we, according to his promise, look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness.
Do we really believe that the present "heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat", and that "the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up"? Do our lifestyles, or actions, or works truly align themselves with such a professed belief? Are we truly living like strangers and pilgrims who are passing the time of our sojourning here in fear, or are we so rooted and grounded in the affairs of this present evil world that we're basically useless or not meet for the master's use?
I'll leave that question for everyone here to answer for themselves.
Whatever answer anybody comes up with, faith without works or corresponding actions IS DEAD.
Not because I say so, but because God's word says so.
If our actions or our works don't align themselves with that which we profess to believe in, then our faith is no better than the faith of demons, and we'd all be wise to recognize and embrace such a biblical truth.