What are your relationship dealbreakers?

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Lynx

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That member might want to peruse that Catholic bashing threads too as they are a high entertainment venue.
I hesitate to recommend that, as I sedulously avoid it myself. It's bad for my digestion.
 

Godsgirl1983

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Lynx

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Karlon

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tattoos, smoking, drugs, excessive alcohol, uncleanliness, lack of energy, excessive tv watching & women who DO NOT live the role of a woman that God intended.
 

Lanolin

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arent all christians hypocrites about themselves lol

why do we expect perfection in others but not ourselves. :unsure:

I have learned you cant marry an artist they are all narcissists lol
Alcoholics are pretty bad too.

Pastors can also be suspect. I mean they have a big job looking after a church when does that leave time for their own families?

As for anyone who collects stuff...beware.
 

Sweetest1

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Smoking cigarettes, doing any drugs, drinking too much, not being Christian, and a few others I can't call to mind atm. 😂
 

Sweetest1

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tattoos, smoking, drugs, excessive alcohol, uncleanliness, lack of energy, excessive tv watching & women who DO NOT live the role of a woman that God intended.
What is the role of a woman?
 

Karlon

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Read Proverbs 31:10-31 & Titus chapter 2 for starters.
 

Karlon

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Sweetest1, would you say that little by little, in recent decades, that women are removing themselves as submissive obedient women?
 

Sweetest1

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Sweetest1, would you say that little by little, in recent decades, that women are removing themselves as submissive obedient women?
Yes, that's fairly evident. Women are shunning obedience and doing away with being submissive to their husbands all for money and debauchery. It's concerning.

But I've also noticed more men tending towards these kinds of women. Almost expecting women to do man's work to be considered a good enough wife. Why does a women *need* to work outside the home or far from home when she has children that need tending to? Why do I have to be a *girl boss*? 😂 When I can be a queen of my castle?
 

Karlon

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"queen....." funnneee! i never had kids but if i did i would wanted to have it that my wife stays home & raises the kids while i work.
 

Sweetest1

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"queen....." funnneee! i never had kids but if i did i would wanted to have it that my wife stays home & raises the kids while i work.
Yes, queen. As the woman in charge of the duties of the household. It's seen as bad nowadays because everyone calls themselves that just for the fun of it, but nothing wrong with recognizing mama's contributions. I don't have children either, but I agree. I'd stay home while hubby works.
 

Lanolin

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be a montrepeneur and head of your own cottage industry. CEO of the household. If you can afford a house that is, though most people (both men and women) cant, so that renders most people ineligable.

My 3 cousins bought a house together, but one of them got made redundant a few weeks after she 'bought' it i,e put the deposit on it.
 

Lanolin

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Yes, that's fairly evident. Women are shunning obedience and doing away with being submissive to their husbands all for money and debauchery. It's concerning.

But I've also noticed more men tending towards these kinds of women. Almost expecting women to do man's work to be considered a good enough wife. Why does a women *need* to work outside the home or far from home when she has children that need tending to? Why do I have to be a *girl boss*? 😂 When I can be a queen of my castle?
From some women I heard its because children drive them nuts and they literally get no sleep. You become a baby factory. Many woman dont actually like doing that for some strange reason
 

Lanolin

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I think its only what 5-10 years out of your life when you have no sleep. Otherwise, having children should be a piece of cake. I mean whats the worst that can happen they die in your care?
 

Lanolin

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Your husband is going to be gone working all hours of the day putting a roof over your head only coming home to lay with you and give you another baby and mouth to feed. You end up looking so haggard as you literally never leave the house, so you husband finds a more attrractive woman to go with.

This has happened to many many wives until I am tired of hearing about it.