It would certainly not bother anyone. But all spiritual gifts are for the edification of others. Even so ye, forasmuch as ye are zealous of spiritual gifts, seek that ye may excel to the edifying of the church. (1 Cor 14:12)
That is simply not true at all. You say to others are they not aware of this verse or that verse, yet you either in ignorance or worse, willfully, leave out what Paul states in I Cor. 14 concerning the use of tongues.
1Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy.
2For one who speaks in a tongue speaks not to men but to God; for no one understands him, but he utters mysteries in the Spirit.
3On the other hand, the one who prophesies speaks to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation.
4The one who speaks in a tongue builds up himself, but the one who prophesies builds up the church.
5Now I want you all to speak in tongues, but even more to prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be built up.
There are several references to or for the use of tongues. Let's all stop pretending those portions of scripture do not exist and only post scripture that does not mention all the references.
As for prophecy, the NT gift is not the same as the OT. ALL believers have the Holy Spirit within them and we have the Bible and should no longer be ignorant and unadvised. It is up to the person to pursue God and not a prophet acting on behalf of God. That being said, to prophesy also means to expound on the word and we find something about that as follows: v. 3 from I Cor.14
3On the other hand, the one who prophesies speaks to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation
The problem of misapplication and refusing to understand seems to occur when a person is a cessationist with regards to tongues AND the meaning of prophecy as used by Paul and has decided there is no more understanding to be had, after all, knowledge has also passed away so no need of further enlightenment.
Yes, it is a problem that snowballs from one refusal to deciding a large portion of scripture is no longer applicable.
For those who have decided this, they are self fulfilling what they say and wrongly teach.
We also have the gift of a word of knowledge which some mistakenly see as prophecy but I guess if a person does not expect any communication from the Holy Spirit, they will not acknowledge that either. There are still prophecies being given on occasion, of future events, although charlatans abound and discernment is not in use much anymore. Any word that supposedly issues from the Holy Spirit, should agree with the written word. There are also dreams that are sometimes given to individuals that often, are for that person only but sometimes for others.
NO ONE PERSON should EVER take charge over others with their dreams or supposed prophecies. Sadly, this does happen and results in people going astray while thinking they are following God. This is a doctrine that is not taught much and certainly not with biblical guidelines which is why we have 'every second person' fancying themselves to be a prophet. That's nonsense and the people who follow such have itching ears. Be a Berean.