Why do christian women want only tall guys?

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Cameron143

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From what had to be deleted from the other thread about "Sex in Heaven?", it wasn't a well. It was a porta-potty that he scooped out of his mouth. He could be an NBA Basketball star and no self respecting woman would ever want to kiss that mouth..
I didn't catch any of that. He was very self critical here.
 

Gojira

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I think most girls do. But this guy was literally 6 feet tall and complaining about being too short.
If HE was too short, then I belong in Oz, somewhere near the yellow brick road. Or, maybe in Willie's chocolate factory.
 

Cameron143

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If HE was too short, then I belong in Oz, somewhere near the yellow brick road. Or, maybe in Willie's chocolate factory.
Don't be discouraged brother. There were many short people in the bible. Most people know about Kneehighmiah. Then there's Bildad the Shuhite. There were even small soldiers like the Roman guards who were so small they slept on their watch.
 

HealthAndHappiness

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I didn't catch any of that. He was very self critical here.
That's good. You wouldn't want to read it. I'll just keep it to myself. It's just a shame some ladies were already exposed to the shameful suggestion he made. I gave him a gospel witness, then told him to leave. It's not like we haven't all said dumb or foolish things we regretted when tired or angry. The problem is that it was a wicked statement of what he said takes place in heaven. I called him on it. Rather than apologize, he wouldn't so much as admit it was inappropriate. If I was around a huntin camp with guys, I wouldn't allow such, but around ladies I would physically remove someone making remarks in such a context of God's abode.

The moderator made the right call and scrubbed the end of the thread with full strength cyber bleach.
Thank you Mr. Moderator!
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HealthAndHappiness

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Don't be discouraged brother. There were many short people in the bible. Most people know about Kneehighmiah. Then there's Bildad the Shuhite. There were even small soldiers like the Roman guards who were so small they slept on their watch.
Don't forget Zachias was a wee little man, a wee little man was he. 🤏
 

Godsgirl1983

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True story.

My wife grew up thinking she was definitely going to marry a guy 6 ft or taller.

I’m 5’11” and 3/4”!!!

I grew up thinking I wasn’t going to marry an Italian.

My wife is not only Italian, she was BORN in Italy and lived there until age 4!
THAT is funny :LOL:
 
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Matthew 19
23Then Jesus said to His disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. 24Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”

25When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and asked, “Who then can be saved?”

26Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”



I believe this applies to those rich in outward beauty as well. What if the time came to give up your outward beauty, like in a scenario involving torture?

Hebrews 11
35Women received back their dead, raised to life again. Others were tortured and refused their release, so that they might gain a better resurrection. 36Still others endured mocking and flogging, and even chains and imprisonment.

37They were stoned, they were sawed in two, they were put to death by the sword. They went around in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, oppressed, and mistreated.


Luke 12
48But the one who unknowingly does things worthy of punishment will be beaten with few blows. From everyone who has been given much, much will be required; and from him who has been entrusted with much, even more will be demanded







I think it is interesting that Jesus was anointed to preach the Gospel to these people

18“The Spirit of the Lord is on Me,

because He has anointed Me

to preach good news to the poor.

He has sent Me to proclaim liberty to the captives
and recovery of sight to the blind,

to release the oppressed,

If, like me, you have been considered physically unattractive, as well as anyone else, such are poor in comeliness and are often dehumanized. It is not just those who are outwardly unattractive, but those who are financially poor, truly discriminated against, etc. These people are poor in very real senses, yet they are blessed. Are you afflicted in some way? Your life does not have to be like this, or worse, forever, because of Jesus Christ.

However


Luke 6
24But woe to you who are rich,

for you have already received your comfort.



Don't feel defeated if you are struggling for reasons beyond your control, because I believe you are actually blessed. Not only will you be comforted later, but if you have inner beauty rather that outward beauty, God already delights in that.

1 Peter 3
4but from the inner disposition of your heart, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight.

1 Samuel 16
7But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or height, for I have rejected him; the LORD does not see as man does. For man sees the outward appearance, but the LORD sees the heart.”

That is not to say that outward beauty or riches in general will necessarily be condemned, because all things are possible with God including rich people being saved.







However let's not ourselves discriminate or give up in any way.
in time, we'll be given true peace about this. God remembers you and we will receive good things at the redemption in God's Kingdom if we do not give up.

Luke 16
25But Abraham answered, ‘Child, remember that during your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things. But now he is comforted here, while you are in agony.


Galatians 6
7Do not be deceived: God is not to be mocked. Whatever a man sows, he will reap in return. 8The one who sows to please his flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; but the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.

9Let us not grow weary in well-doing, for in due time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
 

Gojira

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Don't be discouraged brother. There were many short people in the bible. Most people know about Kneehighmiah. Then there's Bildad the Shuhite. There were even small soldiers like the Roman guards who were so small they slept on their watch.
They slept on their... watches. I'm ... speechless
 

Lynx

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From what had to be deleted from the other thread about "Sex in Heaven?", it wasn't a well. It was a porta-potty that he scooped out of his mouth. He could be an NBA Basketball star and no self respecting woman would ever want to kiss that mouth..
Yeah. That.

I wish I could forget it.
 

Moses_Young

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even with a positive attitude women would still not want me, becuse of my terrible looks and being only 185 cm
Is it wrong that this dude's problems made me feel better about myself? Now that he's banned, I'll never get to thank him for his encouragement...

I guess it does go to show that the old wives' tale is true, though - short guys do finish last. Au revoir, our little, little friend...
 

HealthAndHappiness

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Is it wrong that this dude's problems made me feel better about myself? Now that he's banned, I'll never get to thank him for his encouragement...
Sure you can.



(I get way too much mileage from this clip.)
(Ignore all stupid YouTube suggestions)
 
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In truth I speak to myself here also, when dealing with someone who seems to be misguided we should of course help them see the truth.

That is what God done, especially when people pushed Him aside like they did when He walked this earth.
“You who is without sin shall cast the first stone at her.”
So, with that being said I retract of that llama I posted.

I am a sinful man, therefore I have no right to cast any stone:
 

Sculpt

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My friend explained it best, saying if she is taller than a man, she'd feel obligated to protect him which isn't what she wants. She wants someone who protects her.
I guess you mean subconsciously? I don't really get what she means. Can you flush that out?

Protect who against what?

A boyfriend protecting his girlfriend against a physical attack of another woman, a man, a dog? A man physically attacking both the boyfriend and girlfriend?

I really can't imagine a woman physically protecting a man against the physical attack of another man, unless the man refuses to lay a hand on a woman... depending on the scenario there's no guarantee of that.

Does anyone really think a taller man automatically wins over a shorter man? It doesn't work like that. There's a reach advantage, but that's hardly one the most important factors in a fight.

Couples work as a team in variety of scenarios, which they should go over. A man being taller doesn't figure into any of them. lol
 

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Oh I forgot that OP had started the SIH thread.

Things make a little bit more sense now...........